why do guys always suggest girls should always be forward with a guy to like get to know him or something. its really hard to do that thinking of the reaction you might get. but anyway I feel that way because I think my crush is playing hard to get. he just broke up with his girlfriend and when he's around me he's either flirting, ie standing close to me, putting his arm around me or looking me in the eye. but sometimes he's indifferent and I only see him in the weekends. how can I get him to be forward with ME?