There is this girl I have had my eye on for a couple weeks now. She is kind of shy, but not when you get to know her from what I have heard. We share only one class together (were in High School), and she sometimes looks at me during class and in the halls. Well this is the only girl I have met that I get nervous and shy around. So I had a mutual friend tell her I like her and the mutual friend told me she seemed happy when she heard that. So she waited for me after class but when I said hey she just said hi and was really standoffish and in a rush. So I tell her I like her and she smiles but when I texted her (I had her number) she didn't respond. Then she tells the mutual friend that she doesn't think she is interested because she doesn't know me at all. WTF? She show every sign of being interested and I catch her friends looking at me sometimes. I want to talk to her and get to know her but I am afraid was too forward and I don't want to hurt my chances of being with her anymore. There are only like 10 days before the end of the year, help!?!?
Oh gosh. I am in a similar situation with the guy that I like. It really sounds like she is interested. sometimes when I am around the guy that I like, I don't talk to him a lot because I am afraid of saying something dumb.
It is very likely she said that to her friend in order not to sound desperate. Go with the body language and pursue the relationship =]
I think you may have scared her by being so forward. Talk to her, but don't come right out and say that you like her. To a shy girl, that's kind of intimidating and, in my opinion, when someone who doesn't really know me says they like me it makes me wonder if all they're interested in are my looks 'cause they don't know anything else. I would suggest that you just have a normal conversation with her. You could start with something about the class (you don't want to come out of nowhere with something random) and let it go from there. Let her get to know you and you may just find that you guys have a lot in common.
Yup, he was too forward. she's startled and uncomfortable. she doesn't want to advance things cause she's not sure. dont ask her out again. just talk to her and get to know her. - 22 days ago
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