(I've been having troubles with my connection. so here it is again) I recently started taking salsa classes, I met this guy whom I felt really attracted to but he's 10 years older than me. NEways.
We hung out outside of class, we went dancing a few times and I took him to my sorority formal, then I found out about a small scale dance competition to which I asked him if he'd be my partner and he said that he would help me out.
At the time I asked him we were both still busy with final exams at the University so we decided that once we were both out we could start looking for a place where we could practice whenever for as long as we wanted, so I started calling around and I found some places and I e-mailed him asking him if he was still interested in helping me out, to which he replied "yeah I'm still interested", then my last e-mail gave him an update of the places that had agreed to let us practice but I was supposed to see him that night in class, so when he didn't replied I didn't make much of it.
Now it's been 3 weeks and I have not heard from him and he's stopped going to class obviously he is not interested in it anymore but how do act? I mean I'm def. not happy about the fact that he let me go through all of that for almost a month and that I turned down a potential partner because he said he'd help out.
Also, one night at the studio's dance party he introduced me to a "FRIEND", who wasn't too appreciative of me dancing with him (so I restrained from dancing with him as much I could) and later when they left, she didn't even come to say bye, she stood by the door while he said bye.
So, how do I act, obviously I'm not going to throw a tantrum at him, I have no reason to ask for his reasons (i.e if he's no interested, that's the bottom line, I don't need explanations), but I'm really pissed and I don't want to make a scene,
You still have his email So what I would do is send a gracious email asking what had happened and why things ended that way they did. If he is cool then he will do the honorable thing and fess up If not you will be left to fester in your aggravation. I hate to say it but apparently that chick who didn't like you did not like the situation between you and him and he was forcibly told to sever connection with you.
I hope you get the answers you want and if not the answers that will put your mind to rest.
Thanks! I really appreciate it. I'm still a bit nervous because I know that he won't reply but he paid for a month's worth of classes and I am thinking that he will show up sooner or later, but my frustration/anger is preventing me from thinking ahead on how to act, plus I'm sure his "FRIEND" will be his dancing partner - 7 months ago
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