Girls, how do you like being picked up?

no chat up lines just speak to me like you would anyone else don't tell me how pretty iam or whatever its just stupid any person can tell you how pretty you are it doesn't mean anything always offer to buy a drink if the girl says no your ok she's probably not interested in you in my experience although most of my friends and people I know would never turn down a free drink be a total sin lol but offer to buy a drink and take it from there

I'm down with "Hi, I'm -insert name here- how are you?" Or something of the sort.

to be invited to further conversation

i agree totally with less than Lisa but I think it depends on the girl if she's looking for a one night stand than pretty much any slick talking with some swagger will work but if she's like me I like when a guy comes up to me and makes me laugh and then starts talking to me asking me my name and getting to know me. things I hate is when a guy comes up to me while he's eating or if he just is dressed badly and has bad breath so make sure those things are taken care of. Also just be real with her let her know in your body language how you feel and what your looking to do with her trust me body movements and eyes can tell you if a guy wants to hit or if he's interested in you.

Personally I prefer having strong feelings for the guy first, the "making love" part is always stronger that way. It's actually a memory to attain for life.

I prefer the guy just speak to me like any other person. lines don't work, because they're corny, and if he sits there and compliments me right off the bat, it's a little strange.

Define "picked up"

This is all the only "chat up" line you'll ever need if trying to meet a woman during the day:

Hi. I saw you from over there/across the way/whatever and thought you were completely adorable. I knew if I didn't get to know you I'd kick myself the rest of the day. (put your hand out to shake her hand) I'm _____."


This works so well because it's honest, direct, and when delivered properly conveys a lot of charisma and confidence. You can't be stammering and looking at your feet when you say it. Make sure your shoulders are back, chin is up, and feet and shoulders width apart, and DO NOT LEAN IN. That's called "pecking" and it creeps women out and/or turns them off, even if they don't realize it. (pecking subcommunicates neediness and is the #1 most common thing guys do wrong when it comes to body language)