there has been a girl at my office who has caught my attention around the halls. The only reason why she caught my attention was because all of the stares and looks I was getting from her. I took it as she was interested in me ( or take it for what you want). One day I got the opportunity to go up to her in the halls and talk to her and I got her name as well as her asking for mine. I've given her a hello while passing once of twice too, but that's it. when she passes me by she doesn't take the opportunity to come over to talk to me, should I take this as her still being uncomfortable or shy around me or her not interested? and also she continues to walk past the places where I am almost like she is hoping for me to talk to her again but I'm not sure on how to interpret this. Ask if you need more details, thanks dave
Update: also she seems to be the type that is not used to boys attention (I'm one year above her in college also) but as a person around her friends she seems outgoing, I just have rarely seen her around another guy
7 months ago
I'm really shy, and everything you described sounds like what I do when I'm interested in a guy. Not necessarily staring, but I'm rarely ever the one to start a conversation unless I really know the other person. So I will pass by a guy without saying anything because of that, and I do look to see how they react--whether they start a conversation or show some kind of interest.
If she's not used to getting attention from guys, she could just be kind of surprised by you, but that would probably build her interest anyway. Either way, it doesn't hurt for you to talk to her to see if she's interested.
By the way, it's not sexual harassment if you just talk to her. If you won't leave her alone, that's harassment.
lol, dude if your not careful.your going to take it as getting your ass fired for sexual harassment. I know it sucks, but that's your job man. think of that place as eden's forbidden produce. unless she walks in your office. puts her # on your desk then don't risk it man. be smart and keep if professional.
Jbone is right. That's why I told you to try and see how she acts around other people. If she doesn't talk to other guys and she gives YOU looking, it's in your favor, but you have to be careful about sexual harassment. Approaching her and talking to her isn't illegal, but if she clearly tries and get away from you, then stop immediately.
Try just smiling and saying "Hello" or "Hi" like you said you do, but do it whenever she walks by. Be friendly, it might start a conversation. - 7 months ago
Sounds like she's interested. You could watch how she interacts with other people in the company. That way, it would be easy to see if she really has a shy personality. Though, I really think she's thinking, "Does he not like me? He doesn't talk to me anymore.maybe he's shy?" haha.
If you can, strike up more conversations with her. If she does give you "looks" that's a sign in favor of her being interested.
Does she pass by you even if there are easier and faster ways to get to where she is going, (like she's going out of her way to go by you?)
But really, just talk to her more. You've got her name and she asked yours, if she doesn't want anything to do with you, she'll probably make it clear.
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