she is very flirty but she flirts with other guys and not only me. one time she asked me out and it seemed like a joke but then I could tell she was serious. but I joked and said yep we will go out in a joking way of saying it. and now we talk less and she seems to ignore me a little now. it is awkward and I want to ask her out for real. what should I do?
Did you get a gut feeling that she liked you? If so, she probably flirted with other the guys too so it wouldn't seem like she was coming on too strong. She probably didn't want to seem desperate or up your ass. Since you didn't pick up on her signals and make a move she may have started to think you weren't really interested, which would account for the awkwardness. If you still have a feeling that she might like you, be brave and go for it. Ask her out!
Ask her out. Her asking you out may have seemed like a joke to you, and she probably wanted it to sound like a joke, but she wouldn't have said it if she didn't want it to happen. The fact that things are now awkward between you two is another sign. In a way, you kind of rejected her. You probably didn't know what you were doing, but when it comes right down to it, she essentially told you how she felt about you and you made it seem like you didn't feel the same way. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not blaming you in any of this as I too have been the victim of mixed messages from girls who readily assume that we guys can pick up on every little subtle signal they send out, I'm just saying that it sounds like you should go for it.
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