Okay so this guy that I like has been flirting with me so much his uncle who is only a year older than us goes to our school. And then it seemed like the uncle was hitting on me
While we were texting the uncle asked me if I like his nephew and obviously I'm going to tell the truth I'm not gonna lie and be a little kid about so I told him yea. The next day the guy I like was being so stand offish but then on Friday( the day after) he was all over me like cheese on pizza. I lot of people have told me that he doesn't want a girl right now. But he's confused. he was lifting me up The uncle kept pushing me toward the guy The guy was sitting on me, poking me, he pulled me in to sit on him holding me always smiling at me teasing me and then I saw him after class and of course he gave me a hug as usual you know when you eat something good. And you go "mmmmhmmm" well he put his chin on my shoulder and was just holding me and started " mmmhmmm" lol what do you think? What is going on in his head?
It definitely seems like (the nephew) likes you (or at least, is leaning in that direction).
I suggest you stop working through the uncle, and just tell the guy how you feel; he might be holding off for any number of reasons, not least of which is the fact that his uncle has been hitting on you, as well.
If you make it clear that you like him, he'll probably ask you out (though he might take a moment to work himself up to it).
I don't I only told him that I liked his nephew cause he asked. I want gonna go and lie about it. I try purposely not to bring the guy I like up in conversations. - 4 months ago
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Ah. It sounded like you were trying to work through him a bit.
I suppose you're already on the right track, then. Good luck! - 4 months ago
It sounds to me like this guy is a little bit confused. The best thing to do in this situation is to talk to him about how he is feelings. Another good thing to do is to remove the "uncle" out of the equation. You want to date this guy, not date this guy and his uncle. You could really piss off this kid that you like by talking to his uncle, especially about how you feel about the kid. Try not to play mind games, and tell the kid straight out.
No the uncle is not even in my mind he just kept pushing me into him or calling him my boyfriend its almost like he's trying to get us together - 4 months ago
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I wasn't saying that he was in your mind. The point I was trying to make is that you need it to be a two person relationship, to me it just sounds like this guy is trying to be the third wheel for some weird reason. - 4 months ago
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Like we usually don't talk about the guy I like usually he's making fun of me I only told the uncle that I liked the nephew and only because he asked i wasn't gonna lie the uncle started hitting on me way after the nephew did and for the most part the uncle stopped but now like I said he pushes him into me or will do something to make him step up its weird. but nice at the same time - 4 months ago
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