How to tell if a guy is flirting with you?

I agree with everything tontow said. If you're not sure you even like the guy, why not just leave the relationship? If you do really like the guy then stay as long as you are happy. And if you want to take it slow on the making out and all that stuff, great. Even better that you seem to have found a guy that understands that, respects it, and maybe even agrees with you. Every girls dream, lol. One question though. Why not just kiss him? If nothing else, a quick peck on the lips to break some of the tension and take some pressure off? Your first kiss with a guy doesn't need to always be perfect and magical. If you want it, go for it. What's the worst that happens? If he isn't receptive then I would think the odds are good you have your answer and you can move on. If he is receptive then woohoo for you! Lol.

If you're not even sure you like him, get out of the relationship. Waiting around for something that you're not even sure is gonna happen (in this instance, a kiss) isn't fun. Don't think too much into this. That is every girls biggest issue, is that we overthink things. Guys hardly ever catch on, and we gotta take the good with bad. I guess what I'm saying is, if he doesn't want to kiss you yet and you like him, and this relationship makes you happy stay. But if you're just sitting around every night, wondering if you even like the dude, just end the relationship. It's not that big of a deal that neither of you have made out with anyone. After my first time, I went a year and a half before, and a few boyfriends before finding someone else that I wanted to be that way with.