Well over the past few months I have been getting close to, and slowly falling for, this one girl. The problem is, she has a boyfriend. But, that still doesn't stop her from flirting with me. What I mean by flirting is she is constantly trying to squish up next to me during class, putting her hand on my leg under the table, kissing me on the cheek, sitting on my lap and in general 'suggestive' behaviour. Over these few months, me and her have regularly talked on MSN, having a 'webcam-based-relationship'. It's fair enough to say that I have seen her naked and that she feels comfortable being around me.
A few weeks ago she split up with her boyfriend and called me up after it in the evening in tears. I calmed her down and we talked for a little bit. After that she went to a girlfriend's house and spent the night there. The next day we (me, her and her friend) went to see a friend's hockey game. We spent around 2 hours or so watching the game and flirting with one another, followed by the four of us going for a bite to eat. That evening I called her up to talk to her and asked her what her feelings were for me and what it was that's going on between us. She told me that she had a really flirty personality and that she didn't want to lead me on. A couple of days after that she got back together with her ex and things have begun to slow down between us.
After that I talked to her girlfriend about what went on between her and her boyfriend and she told me that I was the first person she called after she broke up with him. She also told me that an hour before she called me, she had tried to kill herself, and that's why she went over to spend the night at her house.
I know she trusts me and considers me a close friend, but is it something more? Does she have feelings for me? Should I try to get closer to her and tell her how I feel about her? Should I distance myself from her?
i think she thinks of you as a close friend,her comfort zone guy friend, especially since you presented yourself to her and she said she just has a flirty personality and that she doesn't want to lead you on.and then got back together with her boyfriend im gonna say she thinks of you as a friend. but continue to do what ur doing, stay talking to her and everything, you never know where things could end up.
If she said that she has a really flirty personality and doesn't want to lead you on, I think that was her way of saying that she doesn't like you in THAT way. I might be wrong though. You seem to be an awesome guy though, being willing to talk to her and listen when things were going wrong for her. I would distance myself from her if I were you and soon enough you'll find a girl who appreciates everything you do for her. Shes probably way too confused about her ex right now anyways and is probably in rebound mode.
like I know you like her but don't wait around for her. she's with some one unless your up to waiting for her than do it. or tell her how you feel maybe she will concider you.
Dude if you have seen her naked over webcam she either likes you or is the biggest slut ever and isn't even worth your time unless you are just trying to get some and she is smokin hot.
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