I love my friends boyfriend. He is so genuine nice, funny, gorgeous, you know all that junk and NOT a player.though he recently told me that he wanted me, that he liked me, at first I thought he was kidding but then he turned out to be deadly serious.and I was so happy but then I decided no, I shouldn't have him cheat on his girlfriend like that so I told that I liked him but to but to forget we ever spoke like this (We are f***ing awesome friends so we still talk like always) Ok but then lately his girlfriend my supposed 'friend' has been an UBER bitch to me, like super mean, and she was mean to me even before when he said he liked me, but now she has steadily gotten worse, to everyone, including him, and now I'm regretting my decision not to get with him because I honestly love this guy he is the nicest guy ever and doesn't deserve the shit that his girlfriend is giving him (Me and her are barely acquaintances anymore but we hang around the same group) so my question is should I act on my feelings, because I know he feels the same way, or should I continue to suffer and be miserable?
no probs anytime. if I can save girls younger then myself from heartbreak then I'm happy. as I have wasted so many years on the wrong blokes and losers. this sounds like a classic tale of him wanting to have 2 friends on the go and think its funny. if you and the girl are friends I can bet the friendship would surely last longer then the bloke. I know it must be hard for you I have liked men I shouldn't but have then been relieved to move on. you will find someone much better and you sound very much like you deserve to. good luck.x
I kinda agree with sarah, he shouldn't have put you in the situation that you have to be the one to choose. He should/can be upfront and tell his girlfriend he has moved on without her knowing his feelings for you. Or I think she suspects something between you both and is jealously fishing for clues by acting like a B&%^ to you both to see if one of y'all will protect the other thus confirming her suspicion. or that's just the way I'm thinking of it. either way, I say yeah he's yours because she may have messed up before he developed the feelings but he just doesn't want to hurt her, him being a nice guy as you said.
i have to say he is a player. if he weren't he would finish with your friend a long time before pursuing you. telling you he likes and wants you is cruel to her and you. forget him believe me he is a player.
I think your right. But it is really painful for me to let it go, I really, REALLY liked him, see I have become better friends with his girlfriend again and its absolutely tearing me apart to even think of what's been happening between me and her boyfriend (FYI nothing physical, just talking and things like that) but even though I now think he is becoming a player I STILL like him, as a friend and as more, and he says he still likes me. - 24 days ago
i have to say he is a player. if he weren't he would finish with your friend a long time before pursuing you. telling you he likes and wants you is cruel to her and you. forget him believe me he is a player.
But I have decided to put a stop to it completely, because its just making me feel horrible all the time, thisis such a pain in the ass situation and I just want it to go away. He made me battle with my morals as to whether or not I should be with him, but I have decided to stick with my morals, because looking at it, if he is doing this to her, he will most certainly so this to me.
Thanks for comments. any more advice is muchly appreciated. xx - 24 days ago
If the girlfriend of the guy you like does not treat you well.I do not think or if I were you, I would not consider her as my friend. So why worry? This guy is a very good catch! Don't let him slip away! Go get him! good luck!
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