So, I like a guy I work with, and we've worked with each other quite a few times and generally talk most of our shift when we have time. Well I'm like 95% sure he likes me. But after the managers put the new schedule out, I'm going to hardly be working with him the rest of the summer. Going from like 5-6 days a week to like 1 or 2 days a week. He'll be working mornings and I'll be working evenings, so I won't get to see him really.
Would it be considered creepy to add him on Facebook even though we're only friends through work, and have only known him for like 2 weeks? I don't want him to think I stalked him down to find him, but I do know his first and last name, haha. I just don't want to miss out on the chance to get to hang out with him/get to know him and stuff because we hardly will be working together.
Update: I added him on Facebook. Although he hasn't been online in almost a week, so who knows when he'll get on Facebook and see I added him.
5 months ago
I'd wait a month. Guys (I think) don't have a problem with that kind of stuff, it usually makes them happy, but if it has only been 2 weeks it might be too soon. You have to wait until he forgets you a little, then spring back and he'll be thrilled. So, if I were you, I'd wait a couple more weeks, one or two, before you add him. Besides, what would waiting hurt? It isn't like he's going anywhere right?
I don't think it not be creepy to add a guy you like on facebook if he likes you or yall are friends he won't mind if you add him but if he don't answer than he might be supesious but who knows not worry surely he won't mind so go ahead and add him ok good luck
Since you guys talk when you work together, I am going to say no it wouldn't be creepy. If you never ever talked to each other, that might be different. Lol. I have a friend on my Myspace page. He added me and I just accepted. He used to work with me like 4 years ago! He added me 1-2 years ago. So it was well after we ever even worked together anymore. I didn't think it was creepy at all. In fact I didn't even think "oh this guy likes me" because it's SOOOOOOO not like that. We used to talk and joke a lot at work but never once hung out together. He also knows my husband (my husband and I used to work together back then) and added him too for the same reason. This guy has at least 10-15 "friends" on Myspace that are people he either works with now, or worked with in the past. Plus people are a little weird about who they add on these things anyway. I got a friend request on Facebook a couple weeks ago from some girl who went to my high school. (I graduated 11 years ago, lol) While I recognize the name, I have NO idea who she is and am almost positive that we weren't even really friends. I have no clue why she added me. After her I got two more requests from friends of hers too. Again I recognize the names from high school but really have NO idea who these people are or why they are adding me 12 years later (they are all from the class above mine, lol). So yeah people are weird about who they add so odds are he won't even think anything about it. Only time I think "OMG this person is such a FREAK!" is when totally random guys try to add me and send me a message saying they want to "do" me.
Lol agreed. But yeah - it'll be crzy if someone added another person even when they didn't knw one another. Happened to me. Trust me - it was creepy. - 5 months ago
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Yes it really is creepy. Happens to me every so often. Just happened to me yesterday. Some 55 year old guy tried to add me and sent a message saying something like he would like to have me as a friend "Hell I'd like to just have you". It was so creepy. Would have been creepy regardless, but worse because he was so old! - 5 months ago
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