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Best Friends. Mixed Signals?

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acealmighty13 (Age:25 to 29)     When: 2 months ago
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On a previous question I asked about my best friend and being something more. Well, it didn't go the way I had hoped. But I'm thrown off because we both got drunk and crashed at her place. I woke up the next morning, stumbled upstairs and woke her up. She invited me to her bed to lie with her(nothing sexual). This was after we talked and told me she had no romantic feelings for me. I'm thinking as do a couple people that know the situation think she's throwing mixed signals towards me. Have any women on this site done this before? Did you want something to happen just waiting for him to make a move? Am I looking to hard into this?

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totherescue657 (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
something similar has happened with me and I myself was throwing mixed signals, I wanted there to be more but I didn't want to ruin the friendship, next time she is giving signals that she wants you, definetly make a move. see if she is serious about not wanting a relationship. my best friend made the move and we later on went out. from the moment he kissed me I knew I wanted more.
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deviousoblivity (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
When you guys lied together. what did she talk about? and did you touch at all? i.e. hold hands, etc.
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Question Asker To be honest I can't remember what we talked about. We played footsie but I was being a goofball about it and just trying to get her to laugh. There wasn't any other touching going on. - 2 months ago
Answerer I think she maybe was telling the truth when she said that she has no romantic feelings for you.
I have a best guy friend who I hug and always joke (sexually) with and we always hold hands and sit with each other and lie together and stuff... but I feel barely any attraction to him at all. I know we're not meant to be.I know this must hurt for you, but don't worry, you'll find someone who wants you in more than a friendship kind of way. I went through the same situation with my best friend. I know - 2 months ago

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sk8tergirl1994 (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
It is really easy to give a guy mixed signals when you know that they like you. Leading someone on is partly our job. Also this woman could be thinking that you guys are such good friends that she trusts you won't break the relationship between you two friends
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Question Asker It might be partly your job but its a part of the job I don't like...ha ha. I was thinking that we're such good friends part as well. Which I do enjoy and I wouldn't trade it for the world. I guess I'm wishing for something that's not gonna happen. - 2 months ago
 

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tbass134 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
I think you are looking too hard into this. From my experience, if they only want to be friends, then that's it. Its the "friends zone". Sorry, but I think you need to move on.
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Question Asker I don't mind being in the friend's zone but I don't want to get mixed signals telling me something different. - 2 months ago
 
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