Someone needs to tell me what's going on. This may be long but PLEASE!
Long story short I've known this guy for about 2 years and there's about 2 years age difference. making the story REALLY short, we started talking on AIM every night for hours for about 9 months. I would talk to him EVERY night for HOURS. just to get that clear. He would always say how much he enjoyed "bothering" me and its all he would do. He used to be like. NOOOO DONT GO! =( when I had to leave ; he used to be all sad when I would say I was gonna go hang out and I never ended up going and now if I suggest something he's usually like "maybe" He would always tell me stuff whenever I complimented him like "thanks that means a lot to me" and stuff like that. And he knows that I think he's hot and that I like him. He would never compliment me. The only time was when I was saying how ugly my outfit was and he said "why what's wrong with it?" For the 10 times probably that we've hung out, he ALWAYS flirts with me. whether it be always like touching my arm quickly (like a poke) and then saying something absurd or annoying the hell out of me. we went to the movies once with a bunch of friends and we had to share an armrest and our arms were together and then he leaned on his arm and it was like he was leaning on me. little things like that made me think that he liked me. BUT. he never complimented me. If I ever brought up something that wed have to do alone, he would always shun it. If I said. wow I wish I knew that song on the piano he would never be like. ill teach you. he would always be like. ask our friend to teach you. We only hung out alone 2 times and he said it was "amazing". so I don't get it. Hes only called me once like last year. I asked him to call me cause I needed a favor and he never did. my friends said he probably thought it was awkward.
He used to be all "you're coming when we all go to _______" and now he just like talks about where him and his friends are going and knows that he makes me jealous and he apparently gets a kick out of it. WHAT IS GOING ON! little things make me think that he likes me but then he does all this stupid stuff. Do I move on?
In short, yea I would move on. He's giving mixed signs and it sounds a bit crazy on his part. Maybejust get it all out one night and see if he wants to go out with him. Might as well get it over with and find out rather than him playing you around. If not, move on
Thank you so much =) and I agree with you. Like... the other day he flirted with me for 6 hours straight CONSTANTLY "bothering me" instead of paying attention to his friends but then he doesn't call me when I need a favour? I'm sorry I'm rambling hehe. thanks so much again! - 2 months ago
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