Is she still interested or not?

I think that she doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend because she has a good thing going for her now. She has the stability of a developed relationship with her boyfriend, but, even though he's gone wherever he is during the week, she's still getting the connection from a relationship by being with you. Do you really want to be apart of that? I realize that you like this girl, but it sounds to me like she's not only been playing her boyfriend, but playing you as well. I would just forget about the whole situation, because it'll just get worse until she finally decides that she wants to be with him, or his situation changes and he's with her all week. Now, I could be wrong, but, that being said, I have a few friends in the same sort of situation where their significant other is away for a few days during the week and they find comfort in someone else.

ok first off.u are waaaaay too good for this evil chick! she doesn't want u.she was just using you cause you were closer, the fact that she doesn't talk to you means that she wants to work things out with her boyfriend. find a nice single "woman" that has respect for you and ur feelings. move on quick before you get confronted by the boyfriend. besides you don't want a girl that's going to cheat on her boyfriend with u. if you guys did get together.don't you think she will do the same to u?

First of all. it doesn't really bother that the letter is too big.i actually admire you for having the time,nerves and guts to open yourself up like this and let everything out . :)

I read it and I am just being curious: HAVE YOU GOT ANY IDEA THAT THIS GIRL DOESN'T DESERVE YOU? I don;t care how beautiful,or intelligent or whatever she is--- she's just been acting really stinky with you and as well with her boyfriend.
Could you just put yourself in that guy's position.dating someone for 7 months (BELIEVING THEIR LIES!) actually thinking that they're being honest with you and for what? To have her running around with you,acting just like a little girl that doesn't know what she wants.SORRY,but you gotta admit that it is something you DO NOT WANNA BE INVOLVED IN.

This girl needs to learn some respect to other people's feelings and the reactions she has caused and not blame it on you saying : YOU SHOULDN'T BE OVER-REACTING?!

I really hope I helped you in any way.i'm sorry it had to be this direct :)

it's fine love a lot of information because it gives me the chance to figure out the story hahah! and like mis darlanoy510 yeah this chick is NOT THAT INTO YOU! your just her boy toy whenever she feels down! And for goodness sake why would you want to mess with someone who is taken? do you know how low class that is? I mean I know your way classier than that! so honey DROP HER AND LEAVE HER IN THE EMOTIONAL GUTTER! and find someone that is single and all yours! she would have dump4ed her boyfriend rite there and then! I'm sure there will be a lady at your door that is all yours because there are millions of women searching for a charming like yourself! =)

She is not interested in you. She is using you to relief her loneliness. Since her relationship is a long distance one, She needs someone where she can feel physically close to. She likes the attention you gave her and she can go hang with you and still acts like a boyfriend and girlfriend. She loves her boyfriend a lot because if she likes you she would broke off with him 7 months ago.

Personally, I think you're better off out of this relationship. This girl is not trustworthy and her word means nothing. She's been promising to break off with this other guy for 7 months! SEVEN!

She says you're overreacting; you say you treat her really well. So what is the advantage to her in breaking up with you? None! She gets to have her cake and eat it too. But what about YOU? Do you really want to be the guy on the side?

If you really care about her and want to give her another chance, then I'd suggest that you give her an ultimatum to break it off with the other guy. Although, I don't know how you'd trust that she actually did.

ok, wow, looks like you really likes her, well, I can almost be that this probably had somethin to do with her boyfriend, maybe he said that he would end the relationship if she didn't quite talking to u, or maybe he was abusive, just keep me informed and make sure you talk to her really soon, ask her what the problem is.

It may be hard for you, but I would break up with her and find someone else who does not have a boyfriend. I totally agree with hotmama - it's been 7 months and she still has not broken up with her bf. That's a long time to be the man on the side and it's really hurting you. Also, I agree that she is having her cake and eating it too with you. She either needs to break up with him for real or you need to move on because this could go on forever! Also, who knows if she's got other guys on the side too? She may be staying with her boyfriend out of security issues, or like brittany said, fear of abuse that may be going on or something and may be afraid to get out of the relationship. If you continue to give her what she wants, she is not going to have an incentive to break up with her bf. However, it sounds like you are afraid to lay it on the line with her once and for all and break up with her if she does not stop seeing her bf. That tells me that you are not respecting yourself and/or are too caught up with her to make a decision once and for all to see change in this relationship. She is either stringing you along or is too afraid to get out of her relationship with him. You are going to have to make a decision to do what you need to do for yourself or this cold go on forever (as I mentioned). Either way, someone is going to get hurt in the end unless you stand up and be a man and not let this chick disrespect you like this!