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Guys! Would you rather a girl tell you she liked you or would you rather her just hint at it?

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lvrgirl2011 (Age:Under 18)     When: 2 months ago
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You all know when a girl is considering you that she flirts with you.but when she actually liked you would you want her to tell you or would you rather keep it a secret until you told her you liked her first?

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MrRainCloud
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MrRainCloud (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I would prefer a girl to tell me she likes me. Guys have a very hard time reading girls and picking up on hints as to whether a girl likes them or not. It is usually best for both parties to be honest, that way the guy doesn't unintentionally lead a girl on and eventually hurt her if he does not feel the same way.

Don't get me wrong though; I do love a good flirtatious chase.
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SuperFlanker
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SuperFlanker (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Im in this EXACT situation. That is part of the reason I asked that question about girls remembering the 'little things' - I must say not knowing for sure can be a bit agonizing and frustrating esp when you don't feel the signals are at 100%. Well in this case I'd say 85-90% but that still leaves about 20 percent doubt! So here goes. Guy and Girl work for the same company but in DIFFERENT buildings. They email each other for work reasons and on occasion pepper it with subtle flirtations and this goes on for over 6 months and have never met up front. He notices that she sometimes does not respond back to some emails/questions (these would be personal, non-work type stuff) but time to time will be sorta flirty. Fast forward another 6months and they finally go out on their first date (This date occurred 2 weeks ago and the first time we both see each other:) - I'm still not sure if she's interested even though it seems a lot of the signs are there. Anyhow, I text her to see how her day was and she texts back telling me about her day and then she throws in the 'kiss' emoticon. I'm wondering if that was kind of a hint? In fact the day of the first date, I jokingly texted her that if she was late, she would get a 'detention' and she writes back "I'm on my way (kiss) and btw, the last time I was in detention I enjoyed it ;) - Soooo I was like damn. We haven't even met yet and she's layin it down. Sooo that said, would does it seem like she's interested? Haha!
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Question Asker Ya she's probably interested. - 2 months ago

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kaledkaledkaled (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
If she tells me that she likes me I WILL DUMP her on the spot she must give me hints .girl should be always very hard to get.
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gstatelover946
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gstatelover946 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
i like it better when a girl tells me she actually likes me. cause guys are kind of clueless when it comes to reading girls.
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Be honest with us. Guys are stupid and can't read girls. We don't know if you're flirting or just being nice. But if you tell us that you think we're cute, it will give us confidence and let us know how you feel. But if you do that, make sure the guy still knows he has to earn you.
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Question Asker So how do you let him know he still has to earn you? I didn't think that was suppose to be a straight forward statement lol. - 2 months ago
Answerer Well don't do all the work. Maybe say, "so I told you that you were cute, what would you say?" But get to know the guy first before you go out. Don't go for the first cute guy that comes along. - 2 months ago
Question Asker Oh I never rush things lol. I hate heart breaks and I think rushing into a relationship sets a person up for one. - 2 months ago
Answerer That's very smart!! Be very picky and patient and wait for a good guy to come along! - 2 months ago
 

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megs18
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megs18 (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
i'd tell him straight up, but still play hard to get. don't just let him have you. boys don't like it when girls are just way easy to get. they like they hunt.
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
i have a really close friend who gets attracted more to girls who like him. he's attraction is more because he knows they like him. but maybe you could hint at it rather than tell him straight to his face especially if he doesn't like you back
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Well, a few years ago, when I really liked this one guy, I asked him how I should tell a certain guy that I liked him. He just said, "give him a really big kiss". And so I did. We've been together ever since.
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Question Asker Awe that is so cute! Hmm..nice idea too. It's creative lol. - 2 months ago
Answerer Yeah, it's something I had wanted to do for so long. Apparently so did he. - 2 months ago
megs18 That is so awesome!!!! you are BRAVE! - 2 months ago
 
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