Are my standards to high?

I think you are doing a mighty fine job!

I wouldn't say your standards are high based off that. I just think its a relatively logic decision based off your semi-concious psycho-analysis of the guy or groups of guys. All the scenarios you point out are obviously just loser, immature guys or the shy guy in scenario #2.

Look for the guy that is keen enough to give you a glare or two and will get up to say hi, or at least brush past you. Sometimes you might need to make a move too. It's not all about the women being on display and the guy selecting and the woman accepting if he has what she wants.

IT'S NOT ALWAYS UP TO THE GUY TO MAKE THE MOVES, GIRLS!

Well make sure YOU live up to those standards. I see what your saying an I kinda look at guys the same way

~~~~BUT~~~~~
(and this is a big but)

Make sure that when your look at the guy to look at HOW HES ACTING NOT WHAT HES DOING.
If there's a guy who's cursing and talking loud make sure he didn't stub his toe.
If there's a guy on a skateboard and he's in a skate park doing tricks and enjoying himself he's probably alright. Now if this guy is on the sidewalk nun-bowling then you should probably avoid him.
If there's a guy looking at you from across the room and he doesn't talk to you then he maybe shy . . . or maybe he comes from a very high class background where your supposed to be introduced to people and just going up and talking to people isn't appropriate or acceptable.

There are some really interesting guys out there that might happen to do things that are on your no-no list. So just because they did something don't knock them off your radar right off the bat see what they do and who they are. That guy skateboarding might just absolutely love skateboarding and enjoys what he does, Does this make him a loser? No. Does this mean that he is possibly incredibly interesting and perhaps passionate about a lot of things? Yes.

My problem with your list of "no no's" is that you're looking at guys who are mostly hanging out with buddies. Guys act differently around their friends than they do around girls. Bearing that in mind, it's not a bad thing to have a list of what you want in a guy. However, judging guys based on how they act when they are with friends isn't fair to the guy. Like I said before, guys act differently when with buddies. So, in answer to your question, you have really listed any standards, you've listed the actions you don't appreciate from guys. A list of standards would be like this

-good looking, smart, confident, funny, driven, caring, loyal, attentive, etc., etc., etc.

You're list is of actions you don't like or think are immature. Not a list of standards. There aren't many girls who like guys hooting at them from a car, or doesn't have the guts to come up and say hi or whatever.

Gosh. that's really HIGH.Dude chill out a bit.I can proudly say Live Your Life While It Lasts. Really.if you go all no no to all of the guys u'll never find the one. I think that you're waiting for the ONE but that's not gonna happen in close future.I mean ur just 17!
C'mon.chill out a bit and low ur standards.
Trust me.it'll work.
=)

When a guy is hooting at me in a passing by car I think he is stupid. Big no no to me.
-I agree. That is disrespectful. What does he expect you to do - come to his car and talk to him like a hooker?

I see guys on bikes and scate boards. No no to me again!
-Is that because you want a guy who has a car? That's not a problem, but you could pass up a good guy because he was on a bike or skating at the time.

Guy starts cursing and talking loud. You already know. NO!
-I can see how that would be a turn off.

A guy is in a group with is friends and the all are talking to the same chick. Like hell no.
-IDK they might all know her.