This girl and I have both admitted to each other that we like each other (online we both admitted) we are starting to talk at school but she seems to "flirt" with a lot of guys. guys get the wrong idea and start liking her. (she flirts by talking to them)
This girl I know had a crush on me 2 years back, but I never really noticed her until now. It's so obvious she likes me, eg when we talk or we walk past each other we look into eachothers eyes. Bigtime! and I feel like singing the song "That's Amore"
But yeah she talks to a lot of guys, most of them like her. Where do I stand? She seems to like me but I think "tries" to hide her affection?
Help would be great guys and girls. Thanks for reading.
ok you know what, no offense but reading this just makes me so angry! OMG! JUST ASK HER OUT~ITS NOT THAT HARD TO DO! JUST BE LIKE~"HEY DO You WANNA GO OUT WITH ME SOMETIME"~PLUS YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY!
okay, I see this issue A LOT! girls: please don't flirt with guys to try to make them jealous.it's confusing for them as witnessed by this poor guy.
that said, I think she may be doing this to try to make you jealous to gauge your reaction to see how much you like her. we females get this wrong all the time. I'm not exactly sure what we're hoping to achieve by doing this. if she is merely TALKING to other guys.don't misconstrue this to be flirting. she may just be friendly.
that said, here's my advice: ask her out on a date. don't act jealous or angry when she talks to other guys. in a very casual conversation, mention to her "my friend likes this girl and I think she likes him but she seems to flirt with other guys - maybe to make him jealous.most guys are confused by that and think the girl doesn't like ME or they wouldn't be flirting with other guys."
after that conversation, and a few dates, if she continues to flirt with other guys then she's probably not the right one for you.
alot of women are just naturally open and social and this is often perceived as flirting. this will often generate attraction in the guys she is "flirting" with.
don't take it to heart, this is natural behavior that goes all the way back to the caveman survival days(I am not getting into a thesis on human behavioral evolution today)
if she likes you, just keep doing what you do, apparently its working. become the big dog over all those other guys by being the one that IS with her.
by succumbing to the stress of watching all these other guys flirt with the one you want and letting it bother you you are presenting yourself as beta to her and every other guy she flirts with. this is NO GOOD. remember, cool, confident, fun, and unaffected by negative energy. if she is trying to mess with you buy flirting with other guys this will throw her off and she may like you more. if that is just her naturally you will come off as alpha and she will like you even more. its a win-win
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