That guy tries to be always nice to me and try to make me smile. He keeps asking me question about myself are you married, have kids, boyfriend or are looking for one, where do you live? I went to buy my lunch yesterday in is job and he asked me can I give you my number. I hesitate a lot and told him later -he told me later, my face was like: “mmm let me see”. He told you thinking that long to know, never mind, doesn’t worry about it have a nice day. He looks hurt oops.
I didn't mean to hurt him. The problem is in his job a month ago a meet that guy who tried to played me but I caught his game on time. Since I kind of give up on man, and I'm really sacred of other “junky” trying to make me look stupid.
What will you do after something like that?
Don’t you think he is not so interested because he didn't insist to give the number?
Why not asking for mine instead?
Should I go back to this subject with him?
But, Today he stay in the back and didn’t even try to come said Hi as usual and act like he didn't see me.
Hmmm wonder why he ignored you today, lets see he asked you if he could give you his number, which indicated hey I like you, think your attractive, want to go on a date and you hesitated and said later, I would said the same thing but not in such a nice manner if some girl did that to me. Well I would have asked for your number not you get my number. So every guy that seems interested in you, you automatically think they're a player because some dude tried to play you? This guy prob wasnt a player just seems like a nice guy who wanted to you out and have a good time. I wouldn't talk to you either I would have been like f*** that b****
He's but hurt, like the common man, anyway if you interested why not give him your number, if your smart enough to know when someones playing you, you won't get hurt. Take risks is all I could say. Don't just give him your number if you just feel sorry for the guy and are not even the least interested in hm.
Are you actually interested in this guy? Because it seems to me like if you were, you wouldn't have had to hesitate like that and I think that was his point too. Regardless of some other guy there who tried to play you. But if it really was just nerves about this guy making you feel/look stupid then I say just tell him that next time he comes to talk to you. Or you could play it off kinda cutesy. Like, "I hope I didn't offend you the other day. I was just thrown off because I'm used to guys asking for my number, not asking to give me theirs! I'd like it, if you're still willing to give it out."
He probably stayed in the back and avoided you because he felt like he put himself out there and you shot him down. So next time you go in if he stays in the back again, maybe do the same thing but on a napkin or a little note? Write down the explanation and then add something like, "Or if you prefer, here is mine. 555-1234. Gimme a call!" And like a smiley face or something? But make sure you're really into this guy and not just bummed because he has stopped flirting with you.
I think he's right to say "nevermind" after you hesitated. Whether you hesitated because you really weren't that into him and didn't want to get his number. Or because you hesitated because of this other guy, that just seems to me like in that scenario you aren't ready to be dating someone (or at least not this guy) because you aren't in a place to trust someone because of the other guy that tried to play you. Whatever he did or tried to do, he obvious shakes you up to some degree and maybe it's best that you wait until that's not affecting your dating decisions anymore?
I have seen a lot of players, and from what I have seen none of them came to me and said hey you want my number, for we can hang or whatever. Chance are he did like you, got to him and give him your number if you are into him. And my guess is he is ignoring you guess you blow him off - 5 months ago
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