I've been friends with this guy for about 4 years now. We hung out in our group of friends at first, then after we knew each other better, we'd hang out alone sometimes at his house or mine (I'm pretty sure I'm the only girl who he's ever invited over his house alone.) Whenever we hang out with a small group of people, we always cuddle together on the couch or if we're standing he'll put his arm around me. He is always being flirty and making the typical sexual guy jokes. He'll tease me in a joking way, or nudge/bump into me etc. I've realized lately that I really like him but don't know how he feels. Sometimes when we're talking he'll bring up things that happened years ago or places we've been that I would never think he would remember. I don't know if the fact that we've been friends for so long makes it a better chance that he has feelings for me, or if it makes it worse and puts me in the friend zone. I'm just so thrown off and confused because sometimes he'll be flirty and cute with me, and then other times he's too busy to hangout.
I don't want to read too far into it and end up hurt. I know this is a lot to read and everything, but anybody who's willing to share their take on it, it would be really appreciated.
First it would be good to find out if there is any particular girl he is interested in before you get ahead of yourself. Have a good talk with him and find out what he thinks about you and kind of get hints on what he tells you. Four years is a good amount of time for both of you to know each other well. I feel if you look him in the eyes chances are you can feel what he does. However in the four years you've known him has he had a girlfriend or mentioned anyone he likes? Chances are that by answering these questions you can kind of get an answer and who knows maybe he feel the same and doesn't know how to tell you.
Just a couple quick thoughts here. I read recently about a few signs that a guy is into you and here are a couple that apply to your situation: -if a guy is into you he will tease you -he will find ways to touch you -he will remember even the smallest insignificant conversations from long ago
I have a guy friend that I have a similar situation with and we both agreed that we needed some sort of spark to heat things up between us. We've been friends for so long that we're sort of in the friend zone and need to go on some sort of romantic date or watch a romantic movie or something to move beyond just friends. Maybe that's what you guys need.
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