There are plenty of times where I drive by a parking lot of a mall or something and a really cute girl walk by me while I'm driving. I smile at her and she smiles back at me, with interests. I really want to get to know her and get her number. But how do I do that without rolling down my windows and looking like a creep? I have heard so many stories about guys hollering at girls while they are driving, which is really bad. And I don't want to do that. I am a good man with good intention. Please help out!
I think you should stick to hitting on girls when you're not in your car. It's just sleazy all around when a guy drives up next to you and starts hitting on you, whatever you look like or the model of the automobile.
Why do you think it's sleazy? I mean it just happens by chance that the girl and I meet at that moment of time. I have only the choice of trying to talk to her or drive away and never see her again. what is a man to do?? - 6 months ago
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Well, try to hit on a girl from your car sometime and see what kind of reaction you get. - 6 months ago
uhhhhh, get out the car!If your at the mall or park, you can park the car and get out and catch up with her. She might even think it's cute or romantic. And I have to agree with Irvgirl2011 most girls won't blow off a cute guy just because he's in a car. unless that car is a hoopty. Then you really need to get out the car! Lol.
So you are suggesting that I should just park my car asap and run after her and say, "hi.." ? I thought about this but doesn't this seem just as bad? I have no idea how a girl would react to this. But if a girl did this to me, I'd be flattered and yea she can have my number. - 6 months ago
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Truthfully I don't find anything wrong with a guy trying to talk to you from his car. But that's me. I do see where girls can be turned off by it though. you getting out of the car shows that she was worth the extra effort, it's also bold and can earn you points - 6 months ago
Hmm.that's a hard one. I'm a girl who will talk to any good looking guy if he wants to talk. So if it were me you could just ask me to come over. I'm not a whore or anything but I think it's rude if a girl blows off a guy. If she shows interest you could hurry park your car and go catch up to her then casually start a conversation.
<3 I wish girls could be more open, humble, and polite like you. Yes it is mother fken rude to just walk away and blow off a guy when he's trying to talk to you in a sincere and honest way =) we have a special word for those kinda girls, bitch. But how can a man make himself look more friendly and approachable so that the girl actually walk next to his car? I know this is a tough one, but just try to give me any ideas. thanks! - 6 months ago
Answerer
Um..don't smile too much or you'll look really weird lol. Just give a little grin then nod your head like guys do. Don't call her sweetie or baby when you're trying to get her attention right away. It makes you sound like a jerk and some guy looking for ass. We don't find it sweet coming out of a car. - 6 months ago
It's already hard to pick up a moving target, let alone when you are moving too and looking threatening. A stranger in a car falls under threatening category.
If you want to pick up girls, you need to read up on PUA stuff or buy the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss as starting point and you will see, even those master pick up artist guys don't recommend it and would not go for it.
Get out of your car dude and try a moving target pickup instead. Good luck.
Ooohhh nooo don't say it sooo.. =( I drive a decent car and I look like a well educated person because I wear glasses, am too but they don't know that. Yet, the ladies will still be afraid? There has got to be a way! - 6 months ago
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Driving a decent car does not necessarily mean you are a trusty person. It just means it will be easier to attract girls who likes rich men back to your car but sitting in your car? If you got money, you wouldn't go and chat up a girl at the same time flashing her your platinum card would you? Hookers might be interested however. - 6 months ago
Agree! A man leering at you from his car window makes you want to stay away. We're taught from a young age DON'T GET IN STRANGE MEN'S CARS! haha :P - 6 months ago
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