Girl friends = future girlfriends?

One of my best female friend is nonetheless very attractive, and in another universe I would be after her completely and I tell her so too. She's perfect when going out to clubs, women always warm up to a guy they see with another woman.

But I can never see her as a potential girlfriend because we differ too much in how we view many things, and we argue a lot about silly little things, but we still hang out together when we're both dateless. We both know a relationship would never work out.

6 months ago however, I fell for another female friend, when I got to know her, we both knew at the time we didn't want relationships and we got a long well. But after a while I started seeing her as a potential girlfriend, and the day she told me she might go out on a date with somebody, I just blurted it out how I felt about her. it happened on impulse. I was afraid to loose her.

However, I would never go after a girl that I see as a potential girlfriend and just be friendly with her. That's just asking to be thrown into the Let's Just Be Friends Zone. No way, I'd throw every charm. and whatnot at her.

I remember this girl I used to work with, nice olive skin, toned body, and yes, she had the D's, nice and firm. We hit it off right away, and she's not one to trust guys very quicly and then we began clubbing on a regular basis (esp since her boyfriends at the time didn't want to), going out to eat etc. A lot of guys wanted her and would drool for the opportunity to be with her. I alway saw her as a friend and it so ironic. she was willing to do things for me that she wouldn't do with other guys (like watch / trade porn, etc). This is a girl who would on occasion tell me she wasn't wearing panties.had told me flat out that she wanted to sleep with me and yet I only saw her as a friend.a close friend. I don't know what it was but I most certainly DIDN'T tell the guys how I felt and they all assumed I was sleeping with her. So it is very possible to have very attractive friends and not have feelings with her or any desire to do a FWB situation. From my perspective, the 'spark' if you will, has got to be there.

I've had attractive female friends that I wouldn't date. One was way too outgoing for my tastes and constantly talked as though the world revolved around her. Usually she annoyed me by the end of the night whenever we'd hang out. But every once in a while she'd be down to earth and she'd be a really cool friend. Another was a akin to a female version of Forrest Gump with 34DDs in now naive she was. Both were nice people and we got along great (for the most part), but despite their great exterior neither were relationship material. Now if you're just talking FWB or sexy time, then they'd both be fun experiences in my opinion.

The way I view my attractive girl friends is as a friend. I won't ask them out because I wouldn't want to ruin a good friendship. However if one of them makes the first move or acts very flirty then I might look at them as a girlfriend. It all depends on whether or not she makes the first move for me.

Yes and no.I like to get to know someone better before I date them. Sometimes it doesn't work out but they can make great friends too. I won't just become friends with a girl just because she's "hot" but sometimes yeah I do see relationship possibilities.

It doesn't happen often in real life. Guys and Girls are the same, They don't want to ruin a good friendship over something that might not work out in the future. I am in love with my guy friend and he only see me as a friend. I know for fact that he think I'm very sexy and cute but he doesn't want to be more than friend with me. I accept it because I don't want to loose him because I love talking to him.

I assume its the same for guys as it is for girls.

I wouldn't date my best guy friend, even though he is really cute, I just couldn't see us gettin it on because it would be way too weird. He's really funny, so I doubt I could not laugh during sex with him.