one of my closest guy friends stated that he thinks I am 'a-sexual', confused by this term I asked him to explain further as I am not a strawberry. he then said he thinks I dont get attracted to people, and I told him that's cause I dont tell him when I am attracted and he does not know of my (few) previous relationships he said this is the opinion of most of our friendship group and I am not sure if I should take offense from this i am not flirty with my friends cos I treat my closest friends (guys or girls) how I would treat a best girl mate. should I take offense
I don't think you should take offense. This kind of statement sounds pretty silly to me.
So if I were you, I would not mind it.
Furthermore, it could also be the fact that he have feelings for you but since you don't show any "special care" for one, then maybe he was just pissed of at that time (which does not make his statement less silly ^^)
It could also just be a casual statement from the guy and maybe he did not really mean it.
Well, to sum up, I would not mind it (although it might hurt a bit).
I wouldn't bother taking offense. It's really not worth it, and I don't think he meant badly by it. He was only stating a thought he had based on observations, and that thought was not far fetched. It was a simple misunderstanding. Don't sweat the small stuff.
I wouldn't take offense to his because I seems like he was just poking fun at you or something. He just making an observation about you but he could like you know. Because he said that he can't tell when you like someone s0o0o0 I would just keep that in mind.
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