I really like this guy. He goes to my church and he's quite a bit older than me.Everyone that I know tells me just to tell.But I really don't want him to run away.Should I tell him when I see him next(which is tomorrow) or should I wait to tell him?
As an ice breaker, ask him what he thinks of you. This is letting him feel safe, by staying in his element of reason. Then follow the conversation and see what develops. It may amaze you to find out what God is already doing, on your behalf, with him. Feelings typically are more risky for men, so asking him how he feels about you might be too much, while telling him how you feel will be more natural, since women function better (on average) in the emotive realm.
Be honest, tell him how you feel. If he is a great guy he should like you back. Church is a great place to meet friends and find a great man, or in my case woman. that is where I meet the nicest people!
I so agree with you! I am 38 and I really like my neighbor but am afraid to tell him. He is 28. We have so much in common. His roommate, who is getting ready to move out says he doesn't have a girlfriend and that I should break him out of his shell. We have gone out for drinks one night and we talk a lot in the yard, how can I tell if he is interested? I need some advice - 6 months ago
I agree age is just a number. I'm 38, but most people guess me to be about 29. I sometimes feel so old, especially when I find myself attracted to say a 28 year old. - 6 months ago
Don't just go tell him you like him. That might be a little too straight forward. But if you've spent time talking to him before ask him out on a date. And if you haven't really talked much before make it more neutral, like coffee or lunch. Then maybe on your date you can mention that you like him. How much older is he by the way?
If you haven't really talked to this guy then maybe you should wait. But if you guys have talked a few times then you should get to him first and then tell him. You don't want to go up to a guy you haven't really talked to and be like Hi! I like you! He might get a little freaked out
I would talk to him tomorrow and ask him if he would like to do something some time that is pretty neutral. For example: grab lunch or dinner. That way you can get to know him. This will allow him to not feel scared off and will allow you in turn to get to know him to see if you do in fact like him more.
I have talked to him more than a few times...We seem to really get along...however he hasn't said anything this week expect happy birthday. He just turned 33. I have no problems dating older guys...I feel more respected and I"m treated like a woman not like a child. I'm going to just go up to him and tell him that I like I thought that I would just casually ask him to lunch or dinner. I really want to get this off my chest. I know that He know's that I think he's hot. He's a really mature guy. - 6 months ago
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I say go for it. But yes lunch or dinner would be your best bet. I love older men as well. I was in a relationship that was 12 years older than me. It lasted 8 years. It wasn't bad. I loved the knowledge and maturity that comes with older men. :) Good luck - 6 months ago
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