Conversation topics with girls

All of these comments are good but you also don't want to act like you memorized things to ask or talk about ; play it cool. Don't be afraid to disagree either! Girls love to share their opinions. At least ones like me

Maybe the reason you are having a problem is because you are not meshing too well with the girl. Conversations can be made out of any topic. It should flow naturally and without effort.for those who naturally click.

Any attempt to try and make conversation and the other person isn't responding can be painful and dull.

To see if you click, start out with a genuine compliment about her hair, perfume, or outfit. See how she reacts. If she is delighted that you noticed the effort she put in (provided that there was some effort, lol) then you guys can start talking about anything, just pick something interesting.

If her response is more like a "whatever", then she doesn't want to talk to you and to push it will end in disaster.

Now, I have had a 1 hour conversation with a complete stranger about the Muppet show before so, girls will talk about anything, whether they agree with your opinion on the subject or not.

Good luck!

Just random, piddly stuff will work. And eventually talking about silly stuff will lead you back into a conversation about something.

There is so much random stuff you can talk about with a girl - we are so into all of it (atleast I am). Talk about someone famous,talk about the all classic weather (it always gets me going), talk about what you did at work - how you like work, talk about music, and school. Compliment her, talk about sports (some girls might not be so into it but some are - so give it a shot). Listen to what she has to say once you start asking her questions and then keep the convo flowing. Ask her about her family, her carreer, siblings, movies, world events, politics, friends, hobbies, fitness, her likes and dislikes, clothes (Hollister/nike/gucci - any type of brands) and to tie it all up - talk about things that you have in common. The best thing to remeber is to be yourself and don't seem like a try-hard.

There's always silly stuff to talk about. I read one in some teen magazine years ago, and I still remember it because I laughed so hard. It goes something like. "So, which way do you like to have the toilet paper on the roll? Over or under?" Can you imagine using that in a conversation lull!?! lol. Seriously, there are always questions about family, nicknames, possible career opportunities, desires for an unusual pet, favorite drink, avoid politics until you know them well. Letsee, sports, worst movie ever, where to go on a trip of a lifetime, most hated house chore, tatoos. Usually the conversation should flow both ways. A good date will know that and help, but I know I have a standard few back up topics in case there is that awkward pause. Just RELAX, and there is always the joke about how you can't think of anything to say. It happens to everyone at some point.

Let her talk then you really won't have a problem

Become a little curious, ask her a question you think she can help you with/she might know the answer to/ or about her in general(like what's your name, lol.), become interested, relate and repeat. See if she gets curious about you. Then it becomes a cycle, if there's some kind of chemistry.

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