Why don't girls like nice guys?

i like nice guys.
but if he doesn't have any opinions,
lets me do what I want all time,
or just doesn't take the lead at all,
then I can't really see myself with him for long
or at all.

My boyfriend is the kindest person I've ever met. Aggressive guys have their own kind of appeal, but I'm pretty sure I'd rather have sweet than sour. <3

I personally like the sweet, shy guys. I don't want some jerk as my bf.

I think nice guys are awesome! Now, a man who is nice and not confident in himself. girls gotta move on. A man has to be his own person with his own needs, dreams, and desires, but capable of doting on his girl. Most bad boys treat women like they are not important unless they are saying what they have to-to get in their pants again, and stupid women confuse that with a man having a life all on his own and caring for them. I think a real man is confident enough in himself to be aggressive in some areas of his life - like pursuing a career opportunity or saying he doesn't agree with a questionable behavior in his lady. So, it's not so much aggressive as confident in who he is and comfortable in what he needs from a women. Hope this makes sense.

I like a nice guy, but they can't be overall nice. I like a guy that can joke around and still like to have fun, be social and adventurous. When I think of an overall nice guy, I think him agreeing with everything I say and not have and opinion because he would want to offend me. I like a man who knows when to take control ,but still know how to treat a lady.

i guess every girl is different. but my boyfriend is nice and at the same time kind of jealous and I love that. I would never want my boyfriend to be aggressive though ! NEVER

I don't think women want a man to be aggressive as such. Women prefer men to be confident and often (especially at a younger age) women can be confused as to want they really want. I'd much prefer to be with a nice, non-controlling man who was confident in himself.

If a woman does like a nasty guy then you've got to ask yourself why she is going for men that will inevitably treat her badly!

Stay nice Emilio.

Yeah, I'm totally confused with women too because my natural nature is to be aggressive. So, when I go against my natural nature and try to be nice, the women I've dated seem to think I'm being a wuss. I then tend to get angry at myself and go back to being my normal, dominant, alpha-male self, which seems to win chicks over like crazy without me even trying. I guess I'm getting to the point where it really doesn't matter what a woman thinks about me. I just want to be myself and screw what women or anybody else think about me! Anybody else feel that way?!

Being nice shows that you are boring. Being an ass makes you more interesting that and girls like to try and fix people. Almost every nice guy comes to the point where he realizes that nice guys only gets to become the friend. And almost every nice guy then becomes an asshole to get the girl. Sounds rough but it works and so it'll keep happening. Much later, the girls mature and want to find someone they can settle down with happily and are no longer interested in assholes. By then, most of the guys that would have made them happy for the rest of their lives are out being asses and picking up girls.

The problem with this poll is that girls almost always say they want this "nice guy," but almost always pushes that nice guy friend into that little zone that nobody likes to be in.

Note: This is a generalization and does not apply to everyone.just the general public.

It's a shame your "experiment" had those results. If it's a confidence thing, a MAN can still be kind and gentle and whoop someone's ass if he needs to. A real man respects and handles his woman as if she were porcelain-very delicate. He doesn't want to break her nor is he going to let anyone else break her. I think people get being a WIMP and being a GENTLEMAN sadly mixed up.

Well maybe I might be able to elaborate, Most men(Even me at one time) has asked that question time and time again. Your "nice" to a girl shower her with complements give her gifts and get along with her. You listen to her about her problems, but instead of going out with you she's dating a ass who treats her not even half as good as you do. Well there's can be two meanings to "Nice guy". The common assumption of most guys is that being nice is something along the line of bringing her flowers every time you see her or being her shoulder to cry on. But when women complain about there being no more nice guys leaves you a little pissed and confused. The Nice guy they probability mean is someone who's funny,teases them,busts there balls,and not being predicable. Well guess who has more of those qualities? Right the ass or the jerk. I hoped I shed some light on this hopefully but any more ? Just ask me