This guy I like is so freaking shy he is a waiter at a restaurant I sometimes go to and lately I have been going more just to see him whenever I go he just stares at me if it's not that he's walking past me and looking at the corner of his eye to see if I'm looking ok blah blah he's shy but I'm shy too and whenever I see him I get butterflies and I smile a lot and I try to fight it but it's hard. So to the point I have had it with the nasty ass food at that restaurant I only go there for him the food is so not good I'm tired of going there but how else can I see him and build enough courage to talk to him this is KILLING me I really want him and I can see in his eyes he feels the same but he won't make a move and when I said hi he looked in my eyes and practically ran away he walked so fast like he was really nervous someone please help me
God am in a similar situation like d guy you are sayin. but not like run away shyness tho. I know that this gal likes me but I haven even asked her out, tho v talk 2 each other very well. So would you be happy if he asks you out.
Um yes of course do you know how tired I am of the damn restaurant if he'd ask me out I would be ecstatic I want to be with him and I know he does to but he won't ask me out he keeps rumming away - 6 months ago
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Listen, do you at least say hi/hello to him. Or does he say anything? - 6 months ago
well how about the next time (and last or second-to-last time) you go there, when you're about to pay, put a note in the little book w/the bill. it can be so much easier to write than talk. I think that you should you write just what you put here "this guy I like. please help me" and put your name and cell# at the bottom and write 'do you think you could help me out w/getting this guy's attention? ;) *wink*'. he should realize that you're talking about him then and now it's his turn to reciprocate.
if he calls you back, then it was a success and congrats, you don't ever need to eat the food from there again. if he doesn't, go to the restaurant one last time and ask him if he read your note WITHOUT looking him in the eyes, since that's obviously scaring him more. if he doesn't seem to receptive to that and is just kinda 'yeah I did bye' then as hard as it is, you should just forget about him because he's not going to make a move.
I'll try but it's hard for me to get a seat by him and wtf do I do when he calls what if were both really nervous and nothing is said on the phone - 6 months ago
Answerer
Well one of you has to take the lead in this, and he's not doing it, so its up to you. and I know that it's hard because I'm supershy too.
if/when he calls, just talk casually like 'hi, nice to hear from you', 'oh this rain is crazy', etc. try to make small talk and get him to open up. then ask 'oh by the way did you read that note I left?' he should then try to flirt back. if he's nervous, he may just ask 'oh who was the guy?' and then you tell him that it was him. - 6 months ago
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At that point it's up to him. you have let him know how you feel, and if he feels the same way, he should then be comfortable enough to stammer out a 'yeah I feel the same way', or 'you're a cool person', etc.
also, just request to sit where he usually is. if you know he always takes care of the tables by the window, ask to sit at the window. if there isn't a seating policy, then try to flag him down sometime and pretend that your waiter/waitress is taking too long and you can't wait for them - 6 months ago
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