So I called this girl after getting her number, she definitely showed interest prior, I'm a shy guy. so I waited a few days and called, left a message, she didn't call me back. flash forward about a week, I'm walking to my car and I see her get out of a car(we live in the same apart complex), anyways, I walk to her and we start talking, she seems kinda cold and yet uneasy. I ask her "you know I called you" and she goes "yea." (I should note that the tone in my voice wasn't aggressive, more curious) and that was all that she said. I tell her I'll be at the pool, there's a pool party going on, and she says that she may come out and join me. (she never does). what am I supposed to interpret, she showed interest in me first. this all happened about 3 weeks ago, currently, we haven't spoken since. :(
p.s. I'll admit, I work out a lot, (i'm a gym rat) and I was approaching her with my shirt off, (I was just leaving the pool). any comments would be interesting
She probably has a boyfriend or something and when you called and left a message, her guy heard it. So now, instead of just owning up to it, she is giving you the nice brushoff. Just leave it. If she wanted to pursue you, she would have by now.
Women flake all the damn time like this. What happens is they have short term attraction, give out their number, and then by the time you called her memory of you is pretty much gone. And if she's particularly attractive she'll be getting hit on 10-15 times a DAY, so you're just one of many prospects she's juggling. What you can do to prevent this in the future is call sooner and when you do have her in person, build comfort and establish a connection. Attraction is only one small piece of the puzzle.
Forget her man you call again your only going to get the answering machine, and then when you see her again and go hey called you last night no answer your going to the same yeah. She's not interested move on its simple.
look dude,I'm a gym rat too,the picture you see of me ,its me after not training for 3 years,i was 115 all muscle,arms measurement 48Cm ok? as a gym rat I tell you it ain't nothing to do with looks,u didn't call her for three days?what in the world were you thinking?u get the number you call her the next day,don't even get second thoughts on asking her out,dude girls need to be controlled ,they like to rely on men,that's why they like men to take care of them,u didn't fulfill that figure,good luck next time,don't all a lot,call once a week.something may happen.
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