The face is definitely what pulls me in. then I need to know what the girl is like. she has to be funny and smart, not some dumb blonde. the biggest turnoff for me is when she is absolutely retarded and has no common sense at all.
looks are maybe something I look into first, but after getting to know someone, very well looks become least of my concern. basically as long I can communicate with them and both of us laugh I might be interested. Also she has to be some what independent, someone who doesn't have some one else do everything for her, hate those girls.
I LOVE a girl that has a sense of humor. If you can't take/understand a joke it's a big turn off for me. Personality is HUGE. It doesn't matter what a girl looks like, if she can't carry a conversation with me I'm not interested.
I go for the whole package: both the body and personality! Its mainly her face, voice. I like hot, brunettes that act blond, girly girl, perky, and straight up! I like the tits more than the ass. Not the huge shaggy ones but the big firm ones!
Sometimes a little facial hair, I love big brown eyes. Lots of muscles, but not like.. John Cena kinda thing. I love a nice deep voice, not too deep cause sometimes it's scary. But I find it quite attractive if he's intelligent, sweet, and sensitive.. but not too sensitive haha. I also love short neat hair on a guy.. I find it so sexy. - 6 months ago
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Lol, don't take this the wrong way, but you pretty much just described me! lol - 6 months ago
First I'm interested in looks for the first impression, but ultimately personality decides whether it's going to be a two-week fling or a long-term relationship.
Some things I look for first of all is a girl's hair. I'm not quite sure what I like about it, except that I like it. Next it would be the eyes and then the smile.
Oh and eye color doesn't matter, any color can look sexy.
For guys: You know some kinda muscly types and some kinda slender types are fine. I love clean-cut hair too. I favor blue eyes, maybe because that's the color of my eyes, but that doesn't matter nearly as much as what those eyes have to say. confident but tender is nice. smart. sweet. funny. Looks are nice but personality can make a person look so dang good! I like soft hair... and don't care for square-cut abs lol. just don't care much. and hugs. a great hugger can send many sweet messages! :) - A month ago
Is the question what do I want guys to notice or what do guys notice? Because those are two different things. A lot of guys notice my butt and my eyes. I would like to say something like my sense of humor but that happens rarely
From growing up around guys, and still hanging around them, I've learned that the vast majority (ESPECIALLY the young guys) are focused on looks more than anything. They can find a girl attractive in different ways. they can find them attractive as a booty call, in which case all they require is a hot body and cute face that can shut up and spread em'. and there's girl that they find cute and then once they get to know them, they're attracted to them in a relationship type of way. Especially in the teenage guys, it all comes down to sex. sorry to burst your bubble (if you had some sort of fantasy that a guy exists that isn't interested in that) but ultimately it's about sex with them. like I said, especially with the teenage guys. No matter how much they may genuinely like you, if you're not so easy and they meet a girl who's much more "open", it's hard for them to resist the opportunity. but wow, that was way detailed. basically what I was saying was guys can find different parts of a girl attractive for different reasons. it all depends on the guy, some guys are "tits kinda guy" while others couldn't care less about your A cup. so it'd be hard to answer your question accurately ;) It all depends on the type of guy you're talking about