There is this super sweet guy that sat behind me in one of my classes last school year. He only sat behind me for 3 or so months. I noticed he started to act nicer to me then any of the other girls. He talked to me non-stop in class and I caught him staring at me several times. When it came to yearbook signing day, we swapped books to sign. He wrote his name and H.A.G.S. I wrote a small note saying have a great summer and I can't wait to see you next year. He read over it and looked at me. He smiled and said "jokingly" if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I nervously smiled because I truly did. Before I could answer he nervously laughed and said "I'm joking, I'm joking." It seemed like more then a joke.
I really do like him and I'm almost 100% sure he feels the same way, but do you think he likes me? I decided to join yearbook because last year he was in it so I know he will be this year. Also, we are both very shy so I don't know if he'll make a move anytime soon. He is also not very tall (I'm fairly tall) and not very popular. Neither of us have ever been in a relationship before. How can I catch his attention? What if he's not in one of my classes? (oh, and none on my friends know I like him)
Update: My problem is that he is my best guy friend. I don't want to weird out our friendship yet I want to go out with him so badly. =/
5 months ago
Update: (He's my best guy friend even if I've only known him for a short while. I feel like I can be myself around him no matter what. Ugg, help!)
5 months ago
IF you really like him, just ask him out. Write a note that you like him and give it to him in person, and don't leave until he answers if he likes back you or not. If he says yes, ask him out , because if he's shy like you say he is, he'll just stare at you nervously not knowing what to say next. that's it I guess.
ok I know how you feel I haven't been in a relation ship for a long time so if I liked a girl and she liked me back I would definitely want her to tell me. even if I didn't like her I would love to know that someone is out there that likes me but not to make this answer a downer but the fact that you are taller may interfere with his wanting to ask you out but if its only like an inch or two than you should be fine. remember that guys like me would always like it if a girl would say they like them!
It sounds like he does like you. Why don't you hang out with him for awhile, make sure things are the same between you, and then ask him. He'll probably say yes and who said it was the guys job? It'll be scary, but it would be just as scary for him.
Another thing you could do is just ask him to go to a movie with you. (I was talking about asking him to be your boyfriend above) That way he knows you're interested in being more then friends, but you're still technology not in a relationship, yet. Then he would need to make the move and ask you to be his girlfriend. (but make sure to let him know what a great time you had so he doesn't think you've changed your mind)
OMG! GO FOR IT! i think he definitely likes you! If you don't have any classes with him, then try to see him at an after school club and ask him out! Since he's shy he probably won't make the first move. But you can't wait around forever. And don't worry because you really have nothing to lose. Even if he says no (which I doubt he will ) you guys will still be friends :D
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