So there's this girl I am currently going to school with. There's always eye contact, flirting, and smiling when we talk. She always comes up to me to talk. For some reason I never did ask her out the past couple of months. She never mentioned having a boyfriend, she talked about her ex once to me because she saw his current girlfriend at school. The only catch is that one day she was really sad. I asked her what was wrong and she said that she got dumped by her boyfriend for another girl. All these months, she never told me, and now she's hurt. My question is should I still ask her out? Was she just leading me on for attention?
Um, right now you're in a sensitive situation just because she's sad about getting dumped. If you decide to go out with her, than you would become a re-bound, and I doubt you want that.
I say for now just be a really good friend until she gets over it because right now she's heartbroken.
maybe this is ur opportunity to try && show her that you really like her && that you are there for her && you wouldn't do her like that; since shes just getting out of a "bad" relationship she needs somebody who will make her feel better && that can be u. I honestly don't think she was leading you on; I think she liked you but the only thing that was holding her back from talking to you was her boyfriend. so I think you should still go for it but slowly !
I think that you should ask her out. I wouldn't worry about being a rebound in this situation because there was chemistry before hand. By her not talking about being in a relationship to you I would take that as she was a little more interested in you than you think. She might have wanted to see where it was going to lead to. I know if I was dating somebody and wasn't really happy with that person and I met an attractive women that was flirting with me, I am pretty sure I would test her out to see if there might be something there. I sure wouldn't mention that I was dating somebody.
Or maybe she made up being dumped to make it perfectly clear that she was available and you should make your move.
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