I don't know if this girl in my class flirts with me or not - she touches me on my hands, laughs at me my jokes. looks at me all the time. She tells about her job, almost everything.
Yesterday, I asked her if she would have a coffee with me somewhere and there was a little pause. as if she had to digest it. However, she said after the exams. Our next session is tomorrow, I'll see her definitely - What else should I do?I
Update: In the class we usually sit close to each other and I looked at with smile - all of a sudden - she said.what.?.and I said nothing . I think she thought I was trying to tell her somtehing.
Just hold out. You made the first move by asking her to coffee. This is a big thing for her because she likes you. Think about where you may want things to go and see if you can't move them in that direction at your coffee date.
What reactions should I expect from her at this point? I will see her tomorrow in the class? What should I expect? Will she avoid me? Any pointers? - A month ago
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When you have a conversation with someone, you can gauge whether or not they are being receptive to what you are saying. A girl who isn't interested will look away when you talk, fidget with things, and be generally bored. Her smiling at you and actively participating in the conversation will let you know that she finds you interesting. - A month ago
Sounds like flirting to me. Not sure what her interest level is towards you though. I would keep your conversation/interaction with her light and funny. Once exam is over, just say to her lets go for coffee if she doesn't bring it up before.
She seems to be leading me now. The other day, I met her at the nearby coffee shop and she asked me if I was going home or staying in the coffee shop - and I said..I will be here for few minutes. She joined me and we had random talk - I was about to break the ice but unfortunately a friend joined us - I did change the whole subject. - A month ago
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What do you mean by she is leading you now? What were you going to break the ice about? Sounds she's testing you to see if you're interested in her? - A month ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I usually ask the girl where she wants to go and try to create something based on that. Typical stuff, dinner, maybe a movie, bowling. Ideally I would give her a short kiss goodnight if things went well but that's the most. I wouldn't push for too much more.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
I would tell her about my job and a little bit about my family to give her an idea of my background. I would hope she would think I am a genuine and caring person.