there was this guy at work really flirty (big eye contact, positive body language and everything kinda teased me on thursday, when I was on my own having lunch with him he was all friendly and flirty even complimented me on my hair!
Thing is now when were in a group he just kinda ignores me, I like ask questions and he just gives the bare minimum answer, his body language all changes and everything (arms crossed etc)
And thing is he is getting on well with a another girl in the group seen her giving me evil stares today
So do you think he fancies me or gone off me? Thanks sorry for length confused
Some guys will act differently around different people because they are insecure about themselves. It could be that he doesn't know how to treat a women, and feel embarrassed about flirting with you when there are people around. Guys give each other grab when they show a sensitive side in front of other guys. Some day he will grow up and act the same around everybody until then who knows. I think that he does like you but is just having a hard time showing it. The best thing to do is to spent one on one time with him and help him to feel comfortable around you, then bring him around other people. If that makes any sense.
So he acts differently with you when you guys are alone versus in a group? Have you guys been able to spend time alone again? If so, anything changed? I think he likes you.
Yep exactly he acts very different when were alone but that was a few days ago since we were last alone together. its like he either freezes up when he is talking to me in a group or is playing games with my head? you see, I thought he fancied me and now I just don't know cause he was abit cold at lunch today. thanks for the advice, please keep it coming! : ) - 6 months ago
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I would bring it up in a jokingly way. Like what's up, why are you so different in a group setting versus alone with me, just to see how he responds. Perhaps he is going through something; most guys are not good communicators, especially when it comes to their own feelings. Good luck! - 6 months ago
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Thanks there for your advice, might try and talk to him tomorrow. just a thing I didn't say was that I was asking what his plans were for the weekend (last weekend) and he was like going out to such and such place, then I was like well I might see you out!! I'm going to this (eg club X) then I couldn't get to go out in the end and I met him on monday and I said did you go out anywhere and he was like I was at club X. ! I hope he didn't think I was leading him on and playing games with him?thx 4 advice - 6 months ago
i think he is such a kid , he wants to try to get you both , when he is with her he flirts with her when he is with you flirt with you , he probably doesn't want anyone to know he flirts with you that's why he changes and that's not a good sign move on he is a two faces guy!
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