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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)     When: 6 months ago
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I have had this crush on someone for way too many years. He is very shy and we are now finally getting to really know each other. He gave me his direct line at work. When I call, we will talk about anything, for at least an hour. We laugh and tease and enjoy. He never takes the initiative to call me for which I don't understand. I am ready for this to go further, beyond phone calls, what to do next? Or, does the fact that he doesn't call me, mean that phone calls are all this is going to be?

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Dr-Advice (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I may be young, but I'm a guy none the less. Most importantly we are stupid. We are the worst judges of deciding if girls like us as much as we like them. I'm sure your also scared that if you make the next move and get rejected it would ruin the relationship you have now. However seeing that you two tease and laugh is a good sign. He may just be shy and either wants you to make the first move or he is getting ready to make a move(which might take a while). Advice: Invite him to go on a "dinner date" so to speak and make little moves here and there and see if he follows up on them. There's no harm in trying.
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CatchTheStars (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I have to agree with him. You have to make the first move to show him that you're interested in him. Just ask him out to someplace. It doesn't have to be big or anything. But that's going to be the best way that you'll find out if he's interested in you or not.
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Miss-Spicy (Age:36 to 45)      When: 6 months ago
Ask him out to coffee and see what happens. That way, there is no pressure and instead of talking on the phone, you can talk in person. See if you can't move him to ask YOU out somewhere by saying I wish I had someone to go to "xyz" with me. Maybe that's all he needs to take things further.

Good luck!
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Caramel (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
Good Day,

In My Opinion and Judging my your age category the men has probably jumped faster in previous relationship and saw that it didn't bring any good to the table , therefore he is taking it slow with you wich is a good sign, Have you given him your direct number and asked him to call you as well , Use a reason like I don't like calling you during your work Hours, as this can affect your productivity or performance at work , I would rather you call my Direct number once you get off work , depending on his answer you will know what to do if he says sure and doesn't call then don't call him until he calls , if he just doesn't then you can understand that the men is obviously not smitten, If he takes some time but calls then you know that he enjoys taking to you but wants to really take it slow , take initiative , find out what kind of music he likes ,buy 2 tickets and invite him , or hint to him that there is this movie you are wanting to watch the reviews seems really nice and see what he will say , if after all this he doesn't make a move , I suggest take distances from him so you won't get attached and then get hurt , or if you either want a relationship or nothing be honest with him and tell him how you feel , the reason I say that is that most men will probably not feel comfortable talking to you , knowing you have feelings for them once you tell them and you may ruin the friendship it s Risk only you know if you can take.

Good Luck!
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Question Asker Guys, is that true? That once you know that a girl has feelings for you that it will ruin the friendship? - 6 months ago
 
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