How do I get over my crush?

ugh. Toughie. When you say "we talk and stuff," I take it you're up front about your crush? Yes? If not, you should be.

No easy answer. Which basically means, if you're going to do right and stay right by your own values, you're going to feel a lot of pain and frustration while you're going through this.

One tack: hide behind your own vulnerability and honesty. Your peers might use this to their advantage at first, but that will pass if you stay true to yourself and don't lash out. You're really a lot tougher than you think you are, but you *will* feel a lot of pain and disappointment as that truth becomes apparent to you.

How to get over him? You might not. I've had this crush on the same women I see often, going on.nine years. We're even up front about it – or we were a long time ago.– she basically knows I think she's pretty special. But she's responsible about it too. It was a mutual crush – and she was and still is married – but we respect the boundaries we've chosen for ourselves. "I've got a crush on you," she said. "And we've got to respect that crush."

And we've lived with it ever since. Over her? Over me? No. We just suck it up and go on. And we see each other all the time, at community meetings, at the store, whatever. Mutual fondness, but nothing else. Takes a lot of strength, but it's kinda nice to know that someone likes me.

Well the real question is if you were ever really friends with him or were you doing it to get close to him? What ever you decide to do next will answer that question. If you are not happy that he is dating someone your intentions might not have been the best. I understand watching someone you care about dating someone else, it isn't the easiest thing to do, but think about it the roles were reversed. If you were dating someone how would you want him to act toward you? Would you want him to be fake? Think about it

To get over your crush, you have find something to do to occupy your time. Hang out with your gal friends, go shopping, take a road trip, just do something to stop you thinking about him. Since you guy a fairly good friend, I don't see any problem that you guy can't remain be friend. You have to accept that he is dating someone else and you can only be friend with him. You never know maybe in the future, you and him might end up dating but not right now. Be truth to yourself that you really want to be friend with him and you have no alternative motive for this friendship. .

well, if you really like him that much that you can't get over him. maybe you really like him. I kno it hurts but don't fight ur feeelings either. just try not to stress you should keeep ur options open to. talk to other guys. if you and ur crush were meant to be then something will eventually happen b/w you two. don't hope.