So there's this amazing guy at work who is 4 nearly 5 years older than me that's got me obsessing about him from when I wake up to when I go to sleep. I am so frustratingly shy and can't bring myself to say more than hey, how are you to him. I really haven got a clue on this stuff as as embarrassing it is to say I haven't been in a situation quiet like this before. I've never felt like this for anyone :( I'm getting run down because of it and can't get him outta my head. I don't know if he sees me remotely like I do him , I don't know what signs to look for. All I know he's as awkward around me as I am with him but I think I make him feel like that. So this should be a question. sorry. So question is , should I give up on this because he's older right? and not going to be interested in me. and if you agree , how do I do this cos every time I see him or hear anything about him my heart skips a beat : ( you can't just stop feeling this way right?
Why give up? I am dating a girl 4 years younger than me and she is more mature than most of the ego-driven girls my age. If he gets awkward around you as you do him, then just have simple conversation with him.I think it is the cutest thing when a girl gets nervous when she talks to me.then I get nervous of course, but nothing will come of you two unless you just say more than "Hi" Introduce yourself and have fun with the conversation, relax when you talk. What is the work environment like?
There's no reason to stop going after this guy because he's older than you. My aunt married a man 10 years older than her, and they were happily married a very long time until my uncle passed away.
If you're hurting, thinking, obsessing about him as much as I think you are, it probably hurts unlike anything you've ever felt, right? This could be your bodies way of telling you to go out and just confess to him.
The safer bet would be to not confess, but to ask him if he wants to (insert something you like to do that he might like to do). So you can ask him if he wants to hang out without telling him you like him. That way, if he says, "No, sorry." you didn't have to confess and get rejected.
It sounds to me like you're falling in love. You can never give up on love if you feel so strongly about it!
Okay, lets see. He's older than you by a few years. That doesn't matter at all! Age is just a number.and 4 years is nothing (especially in your age group, 18-24). If you think that you make him feel awkward, and you feel awkward, too, if one of you doesn't make a move 1st then you won't get anywhere! Don't be shy.talk to him when he's around, if you ever lock eyes when you look at him, smile.This will make him a little less nervous and will let him know he can approach you easier. You can't really look for signs, all guys are different and confusing in different ways. Just gain confidence, let him know your available (in ways that don't look desperate or obvious) and let me know what happens! :)
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