So there's this boy, and he's a year older than me but comes to my school. I'm not sure if he fancies me so you guys and girlie's need to help me please! :D anyway, recently he's been flirting with me! before we knew each other he always used to stare at me but whenever I looked back he would always turn the other way! so a few months later I added him on msn, we started to talk soo much but because he used to come online late I told him to come online early like at 4. next day you know he's online at that time! on friday he pushed me in the school corridor, but in a joke way and I pushed him back was he flirting? I think he was lol, and the other day he threw a jelly loveheart at me wen I was walking home. so I picked it up and threw it back and he did the same and vice versa. and we kept doin this till we gt near my house. on friday, he kept looking at me when me and my friend were on the fields he would look from the corner of his eye and sometimes would look but when I looked he would sometimes turn round or smile at me or say what? and he tried to make sure my attention was on him so he would stand in a place where I can see him. before, me and him talk about anything but now since he got a job we've not been able to talk that much cause he doesn't come online no more! oh and his family likes me, I've met his brothers and mum and dad and they seem to like me. I don't know if he fancies me, but I really fancy him. I was thinkin of telling him but I was unsure whether or not to because I don't know if he likes me back! do you think he fancies me? and how am I sure he does? please help! xxx
I think he "fancies" you. I think you should tell him how you feel for sure! I'd hate see such a thing pass you by.
From the signs he has given you, it sure does sound like he likes you. I know I used to be very shy like that, but I as I got older, I learned what I was wasting time worrying about whether or not the other person liked me when it was really obvious. For some reason I was waiting on something to happen. It never did, and now all I hear is "I used to have the biggest crush on you".
I regret not saying something. Don't make my mistake.
Don't do this... For it will scare a lot of guys away. We'll think you are very possessive, and that's most of the time bad for guys. Most Guys want space. If he feels you plan to take away this space, he'll feel threatened. Again, Don't Do This.
Sincerely, A Loving Black Man - 6 months ago
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I see nothing wrong with telling someone you like them and that you don't necessarily expect anything back. If the boy freaks out, then that is his problem, not hers. On one hand, guys are always complaining about how they can't read a girl's mind when they don't say anything, but when they do say something, they are being too forward? Give me a break! Man up! If the boy likes her too, then that takes the pressure off of him to make the first move! - 6 months ago
Sounds pretty certain. The fact he is going out of his way to contact you is a true sign of that. Maybe you should hold your breath and ask him if he likes you back?
I would guess that he likes you. Does he act like this around anyone else? If not I would say he does like you. Go ahead and make a move and tell him how you feel, if you don't and you find out later that he really did like you then you'll regret it.
Arww thank you vivathemusic :D and noo I don't think he acts like this with other people! how should I tell him I fancy him though? appreciating the help btw xxx - 6 months ago
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Well, you should be in a place where you feel comfortable. Just tell him, you know, I think I like you, and I'm not sure how you feel about me, but I'm thinking we should hang out more and maybe invite him to go do something. I dunno? - 6 months ago
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