It seems I am intimidating?

look just be yourself I'm sure some will like you,for me I have no personality,i can be anyone depending who the person be,but I don't think you can do this for it takes a lot of talking to different people and traveling.but what the hell try it,people hurt you more once they find out who you really are,but they don't,they can never hurt ya!

I would ask those people who say you are intimidating to explain themselves. Otherwise, you have to do some self evaluation. Would you approach you in a crowded room? Why or why not? What are you putting out there that is repelling people, especially guys?

Good luck!

My best advice would be to really watch your body language. Most guys are used to having to initiate things, so that shouldn't be too big of a deal. But they do want to see signs you are going to be receptive. Look for the biggest body language signals, namely any closed postures. Arms crossed. that's obviously a big one. Obviously it's going to depend if you are sitting or standing but things like hands on hips or using one hand to prop up your chin when you're sitting (you might be able to pull it off by changing you facial expression but it's risky) are others that you probably want to avoid. Anything that if you saw it on someone else your first thought is going to be that person is angry or bored. When you are out, look around you and see what others are doing and what your initial impressions are. Try to emulate the postures you find that seem friendly and happy and avoid any that look negative in any way. Smiling is definitely good. Doesn't need to be constant and fake, but an occasional smile or laugh is very helpful. Eye contact is another way to look more approachable if there is one or more guys that specifically attract your eye. Sounds like you could be a little shy around new people so all of these things could feel unnatural to you at first but they are probably your best bets. You don't need to STARE at guys but just lock eyes long enough for them to get the message. If that's too tough at first, looking up instead of down is a good start. Most people aren't going to approach someone who keeps staring at their feet or the table or whatever. That tends to seem like they are not interested in meeting people. Hope some of that helps.