There's this waiter I like from this restaurant I totally dislike (I only go to see him) anyway he is always checking me out and I like him but he just walks past me and never says anything. He's also older than me. Now like my life isn't messed up enough with me thinking bout him a whole lot lately there is this other guy and this is actually kinda funny he is cute but not as cute as the first one, anyway he is kinda shy too we were looking in each other's eyes and then he looked away and from then on he kept coming around the side I was sitting to seat people he is a host and the first guy is a waiter. So the next time he walked past me he smiled at me I looked away smiling because he caught me off guard I wasn't expecting that. Anyway then when he walked past me a few other times he was acting like he was trying to ignore me ? so I was like forget you then and then I was drinking my drink lol and I saw him coming and he was looking at me so I slipped my lips over the tip of the straw and stuck my tongue out a little not sloppily but seductively and he was smiling and then looked away nervously lol sucker. Anyway he is older than me as well. When I was leaving I walked past him and my friend told me he was following me really closely and then this other guy that I can't stand who works there saw and rushed up beside him and then he slowed down and started talking to him. What should I do these boys are so shy and I'm kinda bored with both of them. Plus I think the second is kinda crazy ( I saw him talking to himself when he was walking to his car one day I don't know if it was talking or singing but it looked like talking CREEPER). So what do I do first dude is a flake second is a sketch? Bump them both or does one seem a little more sincere? by the way I have a crush on the first one but he never makes a move it's boring me what do I do?
Well there's a difference between thinking a girl is cute, and wanting to actually wanting to pursue something with a girl. I see tons of cute girls all the time, but it doesn't mean I go and talk to them and pursue them. Plus with the age difference, the waiter has to be at least 19 to serve alcohol in most states, and if you're 16, then why would he pursue you?
Because he loves me duh lol jk but damn that was harsh but you spoke your mind and that's what's best. Thing is doesn't caring about someone overpower age I mean love has no age limit right what if he legitimately just want to be with me and not hook up with me too many people say all guys that age are thinking about one thing but how do they know everyone is different and not all guys just wanna have sex with a girl some actually do want relationships. So why judge people like that? - 4 months ago
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Yeah sorry, I do shoot straight. If you want an honest opinion, that's me. You're right, there are some guys that want an actual relationship. But I find that number to be a lot smaller then what women would prefer. And the reason is, is that girls allow guys to do that. If girls wouldn't just give up sex without relationships, guys wouldn't pursue it like that. I'm not saying it's the women's fault. But they definitely have helped the cause for guys being sluts. - 4 months ago
well it seems like the second guy is very nervous around you, which most guys are when it comes to a girl they like. he's probably really shy, and apparently you're very out going in showing someone you like them.
the waiter may just be checking you out, but if you haven't really talked to him or he hasn't approached you he probably just thinks you look good.
if I was you id straight up tell the second guy that you like him, and see after him knowing that see if he might ask you out.
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