Here's the deal: (This is going to sound very disjointed but I'm just writing what ever I can remember in a not so cohesive way.
We both take a summer class at a CC and he sits next to me. He talks to me everyday and touches my back when he tells me to have a nice day at the end of class. He compliments my hair sometimes. He makes a ton of eye contact. I saw him in a store (I didn't know he worked there) and he asked me if he had told me that he worked there earlier but I said "no, I don't know anything about you!" and laughed. He replied: Not yet. We talked for about 10 minutes after class (today) about what we're doing (separately) this weekend and he laid out his whole timetable for today (more info than I HAD to know). It's as if he was like "okay, here's the plan. First we're going to shower and get ready for work. Then we're going to do laundry. Then we're going to take a brief nap. Then we have work at 4, ending at 11 or 11:30. Then we're leaving for the weekend at about 4 am." What's up with that? Of course, he didn't use the words "we" but it was very odd that he gave me that much info.
So what's the problem?
He is a communication major, so he could just be used to giving copious amounts of eye contact. I gave him my number a week ago but still no call. He is seven years older than me, perhaps that's why he won't call. Today, after our quiz, he kind of bypassed me and talked to another girl about how the test went. Mind you, this other girl sits on the opposite side of me while they're chatting away with me in the middle. Now I'm not the jealous type, but that was just annoying and rude. He's normally very nice though (and quite old fashioned from what I gather). Because he's old fashioned, is he waiting for me to make a move? What more could he want, I already gave him my number! This is a lot of confusion over a mere (potential) friendship.
Another thing is; I'm already in a committed relationship so I just want to be friends with this (albeit, super hot) guy. The reason I'm even posting this is because I don't want to tell him that I just want to be friends until I have a clue as to what is going on in his mind. What if he doesn't even want to be friends and that's why he hasn't called? Yeah, I'm not even going to bring up the subject until we get to hang out outside of class for more than 10 minutes.
That's why I'm very confused. Because I have no idea what is going on in this guy's head. Can someone else clue me in?
I wouldn't assume he is interested in you until he says so, or makes a very flirtatious and forward move. Why did you give him your number if you aren't interested in him and are already in a committed relationship? You have to ask yourself what your motives were behind that.
He just may be the flirting type, or maybe he enjoys being friendly with girls
Okay, I'll explain myself better. I gave him my number because all of my friends are moving far away within the next couple of months and I don't want to be left without any friends of my own. I'd take having one guy friend over only having my boyfriend's friends to hang out with. I'm not pushing this guy into or assuming anything. I'm just confused by his signals. He could be really friendly or he could be interested in a friendship or a relationship (not going to happen). I'm just confused. - 3 months ago
How do you tell someone you're into to stop sending you mixed signals? One day they want to be friends and the next they're texting you at 3 am.
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Ok well here's the run down. I'm at the bar flirting with my waitress, she's flirting back and I tell her call me sometime and she says I need your...
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