So I'm really interested in this girl that I met through my friend, and he says that she's sort of a tease, or more accurately a "hard-to-get" kind of girl. I don't want to seem desperate to her, so I should I play "hard-to-get" back to her?
Update: Also, HOW would I play "hard-to-get" back to her too?
2 months ago
NO, NO, NO - This only makes it more confusing. If you like her ask her out and have fun, don't play games - I know you don't mean to but it gets way to confusing! Just ask her to be honest with you.
If she's "hard-to-get" it just means she knows what she wants from the get go, and doesn't waste her time on a guy that she's simply not interested in vs. a "tease" would continually bait or mislead a person which is pretty sad.Anyhow, if you have the attention of a "hard-to-get" girl, I highly DON'T suggest to play games because she is NOT playing games.playing games works for the tease in a psychological taming the shrewd/slut kind of way.If this girl asks to hang out, seize the opportunity to casually hang out and get to know each other.Seriously the invested interest can go two ways and interesting people adds more fuel to keep that spark growing whereas games are annoying which quickly puts out that spark.Man up and get over yourself.Take the time to know her while being yourself. If it didn't work out; no big deal because no one is judging you.
don't play hard to get with her but also don't be too attentive.be friendly a little flirty but don't give her too much of ur time at first because you want to kind of give her a little bit of attention but leave her wanting more. (example: smile and look into her eyes hold the look and look away.etc)
I think I'm a hard-to-get girl. For me, I hate it when guys just fall over for me and make me think I could do anything and they'll always be there. It just feels too easy, and somewhat fake. A guy that is showing signs he's interested while still making me wonder where he's at from time to time really catches my interest.
Well someone has to balance things out or your not going to get anywhere.your only going to waste each others time.I think you should be straight forward, and let her know that you are interested in her, and if she doesn't see herself with a guy like you then you aren't going to play any games or pressure her.life is too short to waste time with someone who's playing hard to get.unless you want to play the game.
Oh I hate teases and she's hard to get, damn dude your going to have your work cut out for you. Whatever you do DONT become needy with this girl, as in calling her 24/7 and all that don't do it. She's probably the type of girl who thinks she can get any guy she wants and knows that guys drool over her, this is why she's a tease cause she likes play with them and lead them on until she gets bored of them. If it was me who was trying to get with this girl I would go up to her and say hey do you have plans friday night? If she says no then say well you do now, you and I are going out on a date, don't say this is a mean way but a playful mean way, don't ask her what time she wants to go with you no no my friend tell her hey I will pick you at 7. She may even give you a look like omg I can't belivie you just said that, don't play into that, she's testing you man, simply say be ready at 7 cause I am not waiting, you have to have a I don't really care type of attitude which is what she wants, she basically wants you to be a man and not let her walk over you. This will cause her to go hmmm he's not like all the other guys and if you do it right she will contact you probably within the next day or so, it will prob be a text, do not sit there and text with her for hours, just chit chat for a little bit setting up plans for the date and then make something up say you have to go do something. Don't always be avalible if your always avalible you become boreing and she will go hmmm moving on to the next guy. The more you don't pay attention to her that much the more she will try and get attention from you.
Don't play anything. If you like her then just make a move. If she likes you back she'll accept you. If not then you haven't wasted precious time and energy.
No relationship should be built on a foundation of games.
To some degree, you should always play hard to get. No girl wants a guy who just falls over for her. I have heard my method called push pull, its similar to what girls use on guys, Here's an example:
Guy: I really like your smile
Girl: Why thank you
Guy: Its definitely one of the fourth or fifth best smiles I've seen today.
The compliment pulls the girl in, thinking she's won some validation, the next line pushes her back, showing her that she still has a ways to go to win you over. Once you get that concept, you can create push pull with virtually anything anything. Other than that don't force things, be relaxed, be yourself and be interesting. You'll do fine
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