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Why do guys flirt with a girl when they say they are "just friends"?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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I met this guy and we both liked each other at first. We started. lol. talking on an im. In the beginning it was all flirting and great. Then after seeing each other a few times, and him not kissing me. I asked him what was up. He said we are just friends! But he can't keep his eyes or hands off of me. When passing a water bottle or something, we touch hands. Or we have long hugs where he rubs my back with his fingers.? And I wear a nice, form fitting dress and all he can do is look at me and smile at me. I catch him staring from across the room. I really like him, but he keeps pulling the friend card. He's super shy with girls, so I think maybe I just need to make a move for the kiss, but am afraid he'll pull away. What's up?

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genig (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I find it fun to flirt. Sure, I like the girls I flirt with, but that doesn't automatically mean I want to date them.

If you want him to become serious, tell him you like him and you want to be more than just friends. If he says no, just leave it alone.
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Hunterboyz (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
I don't think he'll pull away.
I do think he may have a little secret like another girl, and doesn't want to consider what you 2 have is him cheating.
Or he could just be trying to take it slow.

If you make your move, make sure you're in the position to really make out.
You are really going to have to set this thing up.
Like one of those moments where he just has to kiss.
Good Luck Pretty Girl


Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man
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chocoluvr2262 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
i think the fact that he's shy with girls answers your whole problem. A lot of guys take a long time to come out of their shells and then only think about maybe getting involved in a relationship. I have two friends that are the same way. What I think you should do is first calmly and slowly tell him how you feel about him. And make sure he opens up too. So you know how he feels too. If he says he's not ready yet, don't push him. Just continue being friends and when he's ready it will happen. But if he's ready make sure you know that you guys are going out, then when the time has come and it's perfect, plant one on him! Haha, or he might first :)
i hope I was some help to you. Tell me what happens between you two eventually. I'm chocoluvr2262. Good luck! Bye 4 now! :)
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