For the past few weeks, I noticed this girl a bit younger than me checking me out. She was staring at me, her body was always facing mine whenever we were in the same room, she acted differently when I was near and she always had her eyes averted when I looked at her. Recently, I introduced myself to her. She was polite, nervously laughed, and snuck in some glances at me.However, since then, no change.
Although she still faces me/acts different, she still won't initiate conversation or make eye contact in the halls. It seems like she notices me in the halls and then purposely avoids eye contact. I would like to talk to her again, maybe break the ice so she's more comfortable around me, but I don't want to be bothering the girl. Is she shy and interested or just interested? Thanks
Update: When I talk to her she laughs and smiles :) But, she still avoids me. When I walk by she tries to find someone else around her to talk to. She likes it when I interact with her, but she never initiates anything herself. She has never said hi.
10 months ago
Update: More of the same. She is still shy around me. But I learned something about this chick. She gets hit on by guys ALL THE TIME. Guys that she's involved with act like pussies around her--I have and will not regress to that level (thats why she still likes me
8 months ago
I see your problem. She won't talk to you because she likes you so much, but she's scared you won't like her because of maybe all those guys. Try to get her alone where she's not surrounded by her friends and confront her. Don't be too forward, but don't hold back. Tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the say way about you. Don't be scared, you seem like a nice and a confident guy.
Wow she must really like you just doesn't want you to know because she's afraid of what you might think talk to her and don't give up this girl is the type that wants to know if you like her back but with out you knowing she likes you first. This girl is very shy so you might need some patients.
I'm pretty sure that she's shy and interested. For the longest time, I was the same way, but I would always hope that the guy I was interested in would approach me. It may take a little more time for her to feel comfortable around you, but communication is the key. Just keep talking to her, the more you do, the easier she'll feel around you. Try to find things to talk to her about to cause if she's shy, she won't know what to say even if she wants to say something.
Okay, most likely she breaks eye contact in the halls no because she doesn't want you to catch her staring at you, especially if she thinks you aren't interested in her in return. She might have been interested in you in the beginning, but being a girl she really didn't know what to do about it because of old tradition most girls don't approach guys because stereotypically that is their job.
She's most likely still interested in you, but I think you need to make the first move if you want to get to know her better. Try walking up and just making conversation. It's tough, I'm dealing with the same problem, but if she's interested she will jump at the chance to talk to you.
She's shy and interested definitely. But I see a big problem. She probably is shy hanging out with you because she is either new to it or her friends just don't approve of it. But she definitely likes you. She doesn't say hi because her friends still don't approve. Just keep the conversations up and I think she'll forget her friends and get with you.
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