I asked this guy if he was interested in me and he said yea. He text's me time to time but I'm mostly texting him. He always answers my text and have good conversations. But it's like we suppose to be getting to know one another and if I ask him a question, he answers but he don't ask questions about me. It's like he not really interested but he say he is. So what is it?
I agree with Meomy that he is naive. But I also agree with Heather that you should stop talking him. While I don't personally don't believe in the chase theory, I do believe that you've given this guy plenty of opportunities and he's not ceasing any of them.
He needs to take some initiative here, so let him figure it out by not starting conversations anymore. If he lets it fall, then he's not worth your time, but if he picks up up then you'll be on your way.
He is sends mixed signals. Most times I can tell if someone is interested but he is a little tough to figure out or maybe I'm just holding onto hope and its really not like that. - A month ago
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Like I said, put the ball in his court and watch what he does. If lets things fall, it's time to move on. - A month ago
is there a reason that you can't go on a date and have to text each other back and forth? I should think that him admitting that he likes you would be a good enough reason to really get to know the other person by dating. perhaps a movie?
We both be busy and really don't get to see each other like that normally so that's why. I did invite him to go with me and our other friends to Kings Dominion in September. He said he'll think about it. - A month ago
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Okay. thinking over things is a positive thing. means you're not definitely in the 'friends' category. but could also mean that he'll distance himself from you if he figures during this wait period that you won't be the one. . . that's the sad part I think. - A month ago
Actions speak louder than words is what I always say.see, if a guy isn't asking you what your favorite childhood memory is it's because of three reasons a) he didn't think of that b) he doesn't see you as a long-term candidate or c) he doesn't care and wants you for one reason only.
Well first stop texting him. Guys are all about the chase. Let him come to you! He gets to pursue you and you know he is interested. Also, I have dealt with the guy who doesn't ask questions and take into consideration if he is shy or not because then I wouldn't worry too much about that yet. If he isn't let me just say that a guy who really likes you will want to know all about you!
Your right. I will let him come to me. All this got started because he texted me out the clear blue. I didn't know he had my #. Last week, I stopped texting him because he admitted to being shy. 2 days later, he wrote me in the morning and later on that night he was all talking. The next day we we talked. We didn't talk Sunday. Monday was the last time we texted because he suppose to be calling. I really just want to text him and ask him straight up if he like me. If not, I don't want to waste my time - A month ago
maybe he just is bad at having conversations over text try calling him and speaking over the phone if that doesn't work talk to him more in person if he still doesn't get it than ask him what's up and why he won't talk to you.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
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Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
I'm fun, won't go easy on her, we can get a chance to know each other, and that I am a gentleman.
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