I like to think he likes me but I'm not sure.and I'll explain why
He always comes up to me first.but then our conversations are meaningless. And more like staccato (short) sentences than conversations like he has with my friends.
He messaged me saying "aww you didn't tell me you had a crush on me, how cute!" which actually makes me feel like a five year old, but then I think "why else would he write that if he didn't like me."
I joked that he was a loser because he was the one with a girlfriend, and instead of backing her up, he just said "I know" .then again he excused himself after. But there was also a lot of other employees around watching him not work so I don't know if I offended him or if he just didn't want to get caught not working.
He says stuff like "What? Are we not even friends anymore? Aren't you gonna say hi?"
And I always get a vibe when he comes up to me that we should hug but I don't act on it. But I do have to say it's a really strong hugging kind of vibe.
So does he like me? Or are we just friends?
Update: Also, once when my guy friend picked me up from work, my crush thought he was my date so when I came back later to shop, he saw me and said "so how did your date go with that guy you were with earlier?" but he's one of those nice guys so I can't tell!
A month ago
He sounds likes he likes you. When he says stuff like "What? Are we not even friends anymore?" and things like that, he wants attention and a way to talk to you.
Another problem some guys have is when they talk to a girl they like than they're afraid of what they say might make you un impressed so they tend to talk less.
Like my first girl friend she'd call but we never really talked on the phone I was nervous but the fact that we didn't hung up was enough.
So even if your convos aren't that great it doesn't mean he doesn't like you.
When he talks to you or messages you saying that crush stuff, he just wants to hear it from you so he feels special. I bet he's thinkin about asking you out or wants to you show him you like him.
What are you unsure about? If anything that was one of the stronger hints that he might like me in my opinion - A month ago
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Well I'm tired and hardly read it sorry.
But when he said that it looks like he's hoping you're still interested in him maybe. If he does like you and asks that then he's just hopin he can still date you possibly. That or if he's a normal friend he's just curious. - A month ago
I have a male friend like that who did the same things...he'd say stuff like "Hey I thought we were friends?" or say stuff about how I didn't say goodbye to him....but then he barely talks to me anymore its like what gives?
Plus he's never tried asking me out that's the thing....is if he's going to say stuff like that and playfully tease me and be all "protective" of me...then like her dude and my dude they need to ask us out already.. - A month ago
it sounds like he likes you. when a guy likes a girl there is a difference in the way he is with other people opposed to you. that whole date thing.he was probably curious as to if it was really a date or not and I would think that is a sign he's into you, but still not all guys are the same. if he didn't like you though I don't know why your conversations would be different than his conversations with other people.
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