I have a ceramics class with a guy I find attractive. I always seem to underestimate myself (or be overly protective/cautious) and think guys are being polite when they might actually be interested in me. So this guy has just recently started saying hello and smiling when I come into class, he stands near me (coincidently?) when there's a demo, he definitely looks at me intently when I comment about his work or when we're just b/s-ing, we both laugh at each other's corny jokes, and he seems to make conversation about anything (to get my attention?) I'm a little shy, maybe a little flirty yet assertive, but I still can't seem to tell if these things are just him being friendly. He talks to a few others in class just as he talks to me, and the class is mostly girls. What other signs would help me determine definite interest? Or are the "signs" too vague?
Update: Okay, some more details: I think he's married, about in his 30's. Does age matter when giving specific signals? Is he flirting like I am to see if we still "have it?" Guys, what are some things I should look for. I'm bad at this, but I'm oh so curious!
2 months ago
ok question.if he is married then why does it matter whether or not he is interested? just wondering? well some married men like to flirt just for fun.if he wasn't interested in his wife then why are they married.
If he really likes you he'll act differently around you to the way he does with others. He'll treat you differently. He'll look directly in your eyes and speak softer, and he'll definitely have a tendency to smile at you when he's talking to you and looking directly at you, probably smile a lot! And it'll be a big grin not just a normal polite smile. He'll try to get into deep conversations with you to get to know you and what makes you tick. They won't just be friendly/ joking conversations, they will be more meaningful conversations about deeper things. That way the 2 of you are getting closer - and that is what he wants. Overall he'll pay you a lot more attention than others, and it'll be special attention - not just good friend kind of attention. He'll look at you more, watch you closely, watch your facial expressions and facial reactions to what he says closely (in a bid to determine if you like him). Hope this helps.
guys can be soo confusing. right now I'd say the signs are vague. he could easily just be a friendly/flirty guy. I have a question- how do you feel about him? if you are interested then why not ask him out for coffee or something. however, if you don't want to ask him out and want him to be the one - then all you can really do is wait. signs that might show you interest would be maybe him waiting for you at the end of the class, walking you to ur car, making plans to get together, asking if you have a boyfriend, and also being super flirty with you while simply friendly with the other females.hope this helps
there is this guy in one of my classes at school and he is always sitting at his desk when I walk in and I have to walk right past him and everyday...
View Answers
The guy I've been seeing has told me he likes me and complimented me a lot but he's shy when it comes to emotions and he hasn't asked me out yet. We...
View Answers
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 2 months ago
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
