Okay so here is my dilemma. I met this one girl on myspace about three weeks ago. We chatted for a little bit, then moved onto MSN.
Now there are two issues. First of all, she seems. sort of shy and busy. She never messages me or makes the first initiative in talking to me on msn. I don't know if this really means anything though, some girls just never message others first right?
Anyhow, the other thing is, I've wanted to meet her for a while now. She keeps saying that she's sorry but she's very busy, I do sort of believe her but I don't know anymore. Now she's very cute, I've already expressed my interest in her. but eh, just yesterday she said she has her eye on some other guy now.
I don't know what to make of it. It's like, the more I want a girl, the more they pull away and run off to some other guy. What am I doing wrong? Is it just rotten luck?
For the record, I am 18 right now. I've never been in a relationship. It really isn't pleasant. I want to know what it is like already!
ok I understanding you want to be in a relationship, that doesn't mean your ready to be in one. Now stop wanting it so much haven't you heard that phrase the more you want something the least your going to get it. so if you really wanna meet this girl tell her straight up now if she says no to you take it as chill as possible there are plenty of fish in the sea you just have to step up your game. and sweety myspace ain't the place to do it. go out in public meet new girls as your girlfriends to hook you up with their girls. you need to know what it feels like first.
now if a girl tell you that she can't chill with you insist but not enough to get her annoyed some girls say they can't to see how much your willing to insist which shows them how much you want to chill with them
as for this girl totally not the case she already has her eyes on some other dude so move on :) goodluck :)
I can't just meet people in real life though. Online is the only way I can, I have no social venue to meet girls my age at.
Also, I can't help it that I want to be in a relationship so much. It's not something you control. - 5 months ago
Answerer
Everything you want you can control and try being a little bit more social, are talking to girls with a group of your friens maybe that will help and if not well stick to myspace. - 5 months ago
What Guys Said
There are no answers from guys yet. Answers are getting posted all the time so check back soon...or submit your own answer above!
if a girl catches you staring at her, would she keep looking at you to see if you're going to look back? would she do this if any guy looks at her or...
What do you like in a high school girl?Do you like them to be younger, smart, confident, etc?How much does physical appearance mean to you?What's the...
Relationships constantly evolve. If you are not feeling good about some of the changes that are happening in your relationship you are probably wondering if they are signs of an inevitable break up....
Oh, what a wonderful job waitress did, At the cafe I frequently visited.Sparking her interest ever so slightly Our friendship was only so limited.Noticing the ring on her finger, But never asking what...
Growing up as a little boy, you watched movies, tv shows and cartoons about superman, batman, and other heroes. After watching it, if you had brothers or sisters close to your age, I would bet money...
Disclaimer: GirlsAskGuys cannot guarantee the accuracy of answers, opinions and advice submitted by members. Please you use common sense when following or omitting any content on GirlsAskGuys.com