I'm 19 years old, is it okay if I go for a 16 year old or is that too young?

well its ok, clearly in the US you have to be 18 . UK ITS 16 so it just depends on where you are in the world in that sense but its not an issue you just have to be careful

OK well there is two different sides to this story. I think that it is perfectly fine because my friend who is also 16 is dating a 19 year old so its perfectly normal in my eyes but the problem is that she would have to get permission from her parents or hide it from them because shes, by law, under age. Except I think that law is stupid so I don't fallow the law so I think that you should definitely get her number and try to pursue something if your college isn't to far away and that's what you really want.

I see a lot of people sayin age don't matter at all; however, when the chic you're dealin with isn't of age, you can get in big trouble if ya'll decide to "take it to the next level". Just for heads up, I have an 18 year old cousin in jail right now for having oral sex with a 15 year old. And when he gets out he'll have that marked on is record and on the internet so that people can see him as a sexual predator.

I know that your question wasn't about sex, but just think about this. We may say it won't go there, but a lot of times it does, and you don't want to give it any chance. You may want to consider just being a friend, because things like what I just told you do happen frequently.

Plus you're leavin for college, don't get attached.

1st don't try and get her
think about it if you had a girlfriend and some guy was trying to take her you would be pissed
2nd its ok 4 you to try and get close to know her a little but trying to make her your girlfriend big NO NO, just make sure when you do this you don't become a guy friend(friend zone) because once you get in friend zone its really hard 2 get out
3rd
the reason you'll do step 2 is so that if her and her boyfriend don't last(no sabotaging) shell be available and you'll be able to date her without her feeling weird

omg you sound just like my best friend
she is in this situation
she has a boyfriend and she works at a summer camp and she says there a lot of hot guys at the camp

You can give it a try. You might find a better one after you move to the college~ Just ask her for a contact and see how everything goes between you and her.

well age doesn't matter at all so yea, go for it! I think that you should talk to her in person that would be the best! cuase if I was her I would want you too=) hey can you please answer my question and help me out! thanks!=)

Let her go. If you're going to college soon, what makes you think this young girl is going to be waiting for you when she'll never see you and she's probably still in high school. I think you should just find another girl out there in college.

As long as you are both okay with it then it's fine.some people mature faster. But don't forget that while 3 years is no big deal after both people are 18, before then, people change and grow up so much in 3 years. Plus with laws and everything else it could get a little tricky. Just be aware.

As long as you both love eachother, the age is not a matter.some act more mature than the other people who is at the same age as she has. Well, do not rush because you might scare her and blow it. Be friends with her first then get to know more about her. You can approach to her if you think she likes you too. It might be easier to go if she had date someone before because at least she know what is love and you both won't feel awkward while dating eachother. like puppy love. I don't think you want it like that since you are 19. Just try to see what kind of girl she is before you date her, if the beginning is not stable enough, you both will hurt eachother!~ You can ask her for a myspace, phone number.etc. I suggest myspace so you could see her background (about me, friends' comments.etc) in there. I am turning 16 soon and my boyfriend is 20, we had been together for almost 3 months. Everything goes well and so on. Good Luck~

It's cool with me, as long as the cops don't find out.

Depending on where you live, you could be charged with statutory rape, depending on how close you get with her.

I don't think that the age difference or even her age should be a problem, unless you make it one!
if you like her, just go for it and see where things go!
start off simply as friends and get to know each other, and slowly she might begin to reciprocate your feelings.
I think actually talking and spending time together beats facebook any day!
I mean I guess you'll in camp together right? So take advantage of that and make it fun for the both of you!
Best of Luck!

As far as the age, if you are really into her, then yeah you should go for her. As far as how to get her. That's hard to say, that will differ from girl to girl. Just talk to her more and get to know her. With time, you'll come to see what the best route would be to take to get her. Good Luck!

Fact the facts, you are a legal adult and she is not. If you do decide to have a relationship with her and one thing leads to another, well, you are in for a world of trouble if her parents decide to have you arrested. you are branded a pedophile for the rest of your life, do you like that idea?

Even if you married her, you'll never lose that branding and you will have to register as a sex offender everywhere you decide to live.

If you happen to think that is a B.S. story, think again because I have read many real life stories like this.

Boyfriend turns 18, girlfriend is still 17, parents hate boyfriend when he was 17 and now they got him good when he is 18. It sucks BUT alas, it is true. think about it before you act.

if its like dating then yah its fine.making out is fine too.but go over that and you may be staring at jail time if the word got out and a person notifies authorities. look up statutory rape. well goodluck