I've got a crush on this girl at work. And it seems that she may have feelings for me as well. I'm sort of her superior, and also a few (8-10) years older. When she's at work, she's open, talkative, has a great personality etc. But it seems like when I talk to her, or come by her area, she "goes into her shell" so to speak. She'll keep clearing her throat to talk, or even stutter a bit. You can just sense nervousness or shyness. I'll admit that I've bumped into chairs/walls on occasion and tried to play it off, trying not to look too stupid. So, it may be obvious that I like her. But there has also been times that I've noticed some of those "signs of attraction". Like facing in my direction, holding eye contact, smiling etc. And the other day, I noticed her twirling her hair while explaining something to me. I'm just confused. So, are there any other reasons to be shy around a guy besides liking him? Would a girl be shy around a guy if she knew that he liked her, but she didn't like him? Or is it possible that she is just nervous around me because I'm her "supervisor"? Or maybe it's the age difference?
i agree with the others. she likes you. she just isn't sure how you feel and maybe is scared about starting a relationship with someone she works with. ask a few co workers out for a drink, including her, then that may take the edge off so y'all can get down to business. :)
oh yeah she definitely likes you :) I do the same thing when I'm around guys that I really like, and when I finally ask them out they tell me that they were not really sure if I was interested or not lol. but yeah, twirling her hair is definitly a good sign. I do not think that the age difference is an issue, she might just feel a little intimidated that your her supervisor. I say go for it :D
She definitely likes you. I know for a fact because I act the exact same way. I have a thing for this guy at work too and the actions you mentioned are everything what you just said.
Of course, it's also very possible that she is nervous because you're her superior. She might not want to mess up in front of you. I don't think the age difference is really an issue here. But really, if she doesn't like you, then she's got an odd way of acting around you.
You are older, hold a position of authority and she probably picked up on your level of attraction.
She is going to be a nervous wreck around you bud.
Generally I am against having a relationship with someone at work, expecially if you hold a position of authority and the person you are attracted to is a lower rank than you.
Even if you two don't have a problem with it, your c0-workers can.
Ever heard of third party sexual harrasment? it is real and you could both lose your jobs.
All someone has to do is complain that the two of you make them feel uncomfortable with "flirting" "Hugging" or even complain that the lower ranked person is trying to gain favor sexually and you are both toast!
Third-party sexual harrasment is real and isn't a joke, a lot of people been terminated from thier jobs for this. Don't take this lightly, I try to warn as many as people as possible about this.
Office romances can get you in deep trouble, try to avoid it.
I'm 32 and she's 24. We work for the same company. We are definitely attracted to each other. Is that too much of an age difference to go any further?
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