I really like this older guy but I don't want to be forward with him. I have called him twice now (once a day for two days, last day was Friday).
Both times we talked about silly stuff. I teased him because he got off work early, telling him that it must be nice, lol. Then he teased me back by telling me that he had the top down on his car. He knows that I like his car. He was friendly.
The next day that I called he was normal. I told him that I had something to ask him and he was like, "I'm scared now." But it was something silly again that I wanted to ask him.
But both times I initiated the goodbye's. He will talk to me but I want him to call me. He is a shy guy though.
I've gotten advice from male family members saying that I should let him call now.
you need to call him less and when he calls you I think you should end the conversation two minutes into the call. and tell him to call you sometime over the weekend. if he fails to call you over the weekend then you intentionally miss the calls for a few days.
If you enjoy the conversation, keep calling him. You can always ask him to call you sometime, just throw it out there in a casual way if you really want him to call. I think two phone calls may not be enough if the guy is really shy. Have you met yet? May take some time. If you stop calling he may get the wrong impression and think you're not interested.
i hate talking on the phone. if I want to communicate with a girl I'd so much rather do it face-to-face, or (weirdly) via chat.
under the right circumstances I'd make an effort to stay on the phone & talk with a girl, but starting the call myself is unusual for me.
in other words there are guys who don't make calls to chat.
*however* it sounds like you two have a rapport & it seems that you've demonstrated your interest. it's probably fair enough to let him make a move to show his interest, but be aware that us guys can be very dumb when it comes to reading interest from women - and if he's significantly older than you he may by default think that you wouldn't be interested in an older guy, and so be treating your contact as friendship rather than anything more serious.
maybe if you have some activity come up naturally - something you'd go to alone anyway - invite him to join you; that might help kick-start his neurons into understanding the degree of your interest
you should phone him and when it rings hang up.the he wil get a missed call and he should call you.but you have made a effort twice to call him so he should call next in my opiion.
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