How do you know if a guy is really into you?

Chances are he isn't going to bring it up. So, you might have to, if it's really important to you.

At worst, you'll still get the sex the way it is currently. So, you've probably nothing to lose.

Joan,

First of all, it sounds like you are on the brink of being "in love", which is cool. You'll know if he's really into you two ways: he TALKS to you (know what I mean?), and also if he reciprocates (and I know you know what I mean, lol).

The rule about calling... When women say "I'll call you" they mean tonight, when I get home. When men say "I'll call you", we mean before we die. It's not disrespect, men are just not as good at verbal communication as women. It's why men are SO good at face to face sales. It's all in the moment. How do I know? Because, I've been married for 10 years, and I work in sales...lol

That's awesome, it's sounds like you are hitting your sexual peak. Now you know how a guy feels at 19. I wanted it 3 times a day then, too.

First of all, congrats on the relationship. Secondly, if the two of you have not discussed the age issue between the two of you, it will always be a hinderance to your relationship. I am 28, my husband is 45. We met when I was 21 and I knew from the first day we met that he was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I know he felt the same way but it took him nearly 4 years to get past the age difference before he even asked me out. Fortunately I was still waiting for him to get over it. Talk to him.

You may not want to come on that strong, but maybe you can like sit down with him and talk with him and tell him you really care about him.